My friend said that he wouldnt leave me if i were to hav hiz baby.
2006-11-05 08:24:28 · 19 answers · asked by Fiesty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The simple answer, and I know the simple answer isn't always the easiest to take, is to leave him.
You should only consider having sex because you want to have sex and not be pressurised by someone else.
Trust me, if you get pregnant - he's gone!
2006-11-06 02:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling pressure to have sex, and feel you are not ready yet, you need to be honest and tell your partner the truth. If they don't accept it, then they really don't care about your feelings, and that means they may not be the person for you.
All teenagers have hormones and an interest in sex, and they can physically have sex, but you need to be emotionally mature enough to handle sex too.
Anyone who pressures you to do something you do not want to do is not your friend. The basis of any healthy relationship (gay, straight, or otherwise) should be frienship and trust. Relationships based on sex alone rarely last. It is better to be single than to be with someone who does not respect you enough to value your feelings.
Having a BABY is another story. If you do decide to have sex, make sure that you use protection so that no-one has to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. If you are not concerned enough about yourselves to protect each other from pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease, than you are not ready to be having sex.
2006-11-05 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ket-Su Jhuzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think before you let it go. dont do something you will regret.
i know that s.e.x. can be tempting but its really not worth it
(well atleast in your case its not worth it). If you are grown
i think you can make your own decision, make the right choice
because losing your virginity can make you happy and it can also
break you until it tears you apart, never do something you are
pressured into, the feeling needs to be mutual. if your friend
cant comprehend that you dont want to or that you arnt ready
for such a big commitment you should drop him. you should
wait until marrige but just remember that you shouldnt be
pressured into doing something, you have to make this decision,
not him. dont be a fool and fall for what he said about not
leaving you, cant you see his hormones are raging and
he'll do anything to get what he wants.
good luck
2006-11-05 16:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by al3xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is not telling you the truth
respect you self and don't do it
its just like a dare
if this person is your friend they will not pressure you
if they are your friend they will respect your body
if they are not your friend, they will just try to get pleasure for themselves
this person is a liar - to you & maybe to them selves too
ask if they will sign a legal statement that they will pay you $2000 a month, minimum, until the child is 18. see how they react
2006-11-05 19:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys will tell you anything to get what they want, then they'll leave you like a trash bag on the corner. the world really doesn't need more people having sex because they want to be cool and not because they really want to. look deep inside your hart and ask yourself is that what i want to do, if its yes then ask over and over.(just wait till your married, then you can do what you want)
2006-11-05 17:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by -The Best ;) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it no matter what the cost is! If this guy reallt did love you, then he'd be more than happy to wait until you are ready to have sex.
2006-11-05 19:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to him. Hardly any guy especially teen guys stay once they find out their going to be a daddy. Thet just leave.
2006-11-06 02:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. No one can say they won't leave you if you have there baby...it's a lie to get you to have sex...don't fall for it...just say yeah you probably wouldn't but i'm not taking that chance...it's not worth it...
2006-11-06 00:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please say no. I've been there and times change and people change and yet things stay the same, you know? Basically, you really need to wait until your married because the world needs young people to save it through stron families; which come from real commitments.
2006-11-05 16:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Patty B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm.. well this friend of urs doesn't sound like he's such a great friend! if he was really ur friend then he wouldn't pressure u nto n e thing! don't let him pressure u nto n e thing u don't wanna do!! u will regret it forever!! GOOD luck!! =]]
2006-11-05 18:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_mickeyickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋