This is a marriage in which the trust is gone, on my part. The sex is dried, like a prune and the desire to explore her body is nonexistant. This is my second marriage so, I suppose I already know the answer and out of fear of failure, I am blind to ending it.
2006-11-05 07:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by Phish101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a marriage is over when both people have no desire to fix it. marriage is hard work. you have to want things to change and work at them in order for them to get better. however, just from reading your question, you have already reached the point on no return.
2006-11-05 07:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to open up and communicate with each other, forgive each other and go forward together or not.
Don't quit. The vows say" for better or worse " for a reason.
You can both learn to be better partners if you work through the problems.
2006-11-05 15:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Truebluesue222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there that is right for you. You are on here writing notes instead of ending your present marriage while she waits to find you. Get moving with your life!
2006-11-05 16:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, then just let her go, get a divorce. My advice is : don't remarry. It sounds like you'd only be back in this situation again, so don't have any way it could. Stay single- it's your best bet.
2006-11-05 15:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like it is over. What does she think though? Plus you could always give it one last try by going to counselling.
2006-11-05 16:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by roast_breadfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you have a girlfriend,and that is the only reason you lost your excitement for your wife.
2006-11-05 16:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but yes you are right I guess its over. All but the crying.
2006-11-05 15:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...
Get the divorce...
2006-11-05 16:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋