It is a health question for school. If you use a condom then it is okay right? Well i have 3 questions to go but i am really curious about this one.
2006-11-05 07:37:15 · 33 answers · asked by candyr1015 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just because you use a condom doesn't mean it is okay. Think about this: Are you mentally ready for the resonsibilities of it? If the condom breaks and you get pregnant, are you ready to take care of a baby? Are you ready to give your live up to raise the baby? If you chose abortion, are you mentally stable enough to deal with the emotional part of the abortion? You should wait until you are at least twenty-one, or until you are married or in a serious relationship. Does your b/f pressure you to have sex? Does he tell you that he loves you so much that he waited for his "first time" to do it with you? If you answered yes to both of those, then you aren't in a serious relationship. There are also many other things you have to think about. Like, what if you got an STD? How would you tell your parents if you were pregnant or if you were having sex? If you were married or in a serious relationship then you and your partner would be strong enough to handle the consequences together, but no 13 or 14 year old would even be ready, emotionally or physically, to even think about having sex! Most of them aren't even in a serious relationship. A serious relationship isn't just hanging out in the schoolhallways and giving you pecks on the cheeks and holding hands. Trust me, you'll know when you are ready. If you are asking this question to anyone, or if you have any "ifs" on the question, then you aren't ready at all. You should also talk to your partner about it first, too.
2006-11-05 11:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I don't think it's OK at all. A 13/14 year old is not emotionally or physically ready for sex, although some might think they are. Also a 13/14 year old would not be able to cope with the consequences of sex; pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Even if you do use protection, accidents can happen.
It's very unlikely a 13/14 year old would be in a serious relationship so it's not gonna be that special.
2006-11-05 08:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it not okay to have sex when you are say thirteen or 14.
and If you use a condom then it is Not okay 100%.
What are your other questions?!
2006-11-05 07:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by MTAWAMI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not okay with or without a condom. Don't have sex, because it can lead to all kinds of problems. It will give you the reputation of a swinger, especially if you do it with more than one person. If you get pregnant or you get a girl pregnant you will have to deal with it for the rest of your teenage year and most of your twenties. Also, it's kind of hard to go on dates, parties, or school with a baby to take care of.
2006-11-05 10:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea because you are not ready physically or emotionally. This is not, on my part, a morality issue but one of mental and physical health.
Sex can be wonderful but waiting until you mature and the time is right is a really much smarter thing for you to do.
Ask you parents for some books about puberty written for young people.
2006-11-05 07:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too young; what do you know about sex at the age of 13?
Wait till you are more mature for it. It's not just a quastion of whether or not to use condoms, it is also about if you are ready, both physically and mentally. At 13, no one is ready on either fronts.
So wait!
2006-11-06 08:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Calculus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't kow if it's about you, but whatever the case 13/14 is WAY too young to have sex. Even if you use a condom. Sex is for people who have feelings for each other. It isn't a game.
2006-11-05 07:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Luvlee_Dreamer87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using a condom doesn't make it ok. It doesn't mean a person won't get an STD, it doesn't mean a person won't get pregnant. Condoms are not 100% effective.
Bottom line, if you're not ready to deal with any possible consequences of sexual activity, then it's not ok....no matter what your age.
2006-11-05 07:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mary K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not unless you are married at 13 or 14
2006-11-05 21:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not healthy for a person that young to have sex, either physically or psychologically- too many young people have sex thinking it is all physical- they are curious and flooded with hormones but they are not usually ready for the psychological impact that it has on them, so my answer is no
2006-11-05 07:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋