2006-11-05 07:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by ayrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i am not perfect my self, so I would appreciate all the blessings I have with great kids and husband. Not everybody have those you know.. sometimes we only think the neighbour's grass is greener because it is not ours.
I didn't know I had a great dad until he died and now every single day I wish I could speak with him and let him know I appreciate what he had done for me in the past.
2006-11-05 07:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't too much see the romantic movies and read the romantic books. What do you know about love?
Do you think love is something if someone give you flowers everyday? Or if someone speak nicely and take you for dinner with champagne? It's real world, not stupid dream like you think.
If someone can live until get some great kids and she feel get a great husband, it means she love her husband. Love is abstract, sometimes can not be felt, but it works. But someone mixed up with stupid stories and stupid dreams like you think.
Love can be analogized like health. Do you think everyone can feel it in daily life? NO, until they feel sick, and they will realize how benefits to be healthy.
So, what do you think?
2006-11-05 07:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you lose love?
You have great kids, and a great husband. Try to be content.. divorce isn't all it's cracked up to be. You may leave him and find out that you did really care, what then?
2006-11-05 07:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think what would be best for the kids. most people would autmatically think that staying in the marriage would be best, but it would only hurt you and break you down. if youre not mentally stable then you wont be as efficient of a mother than you would be if you were happy.
you should talk to your husband and just tell him the truth. you never know he might be feeling the same way about you. if you talk to him about this before cheating on him, it respects the fact that you still see him as your husband-someone who you vowed to honor and cherish-that you would be open to talk to anytime.
hopefully things work out mutually. goodluck
2006-11-05 07:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not in love but still love him and care for him, you should stay, because the in love feeling supposingly goes away, but like you said, you have great kids and a great husband, a perfect family!
2006-11-05 07:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were ever in love with him, then you should try to find the spark again. Probably look for counseling by yourself first then maybe marriage counseling with your husband too.
2006-11-05 07:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by tex37curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your life isn't miserable, then keep your family together. You might try working on your marriage. You were in love with him at one time...you might just fall in love with him again.
2006-11-05 07:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think that being with man that you don't love will kill you and all this will lead you to find an other man and cheat on him. i think that you should think about this hard and it really counts on how old your kids are
2006-11-05 07:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are fighting the best thing is to leave reguardless if you think it is going to hurt the kid, because that kid see the way he father is and he will think it is ok to raise him family like that, but if there is no fighting go to councling
2006-11-05 07:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, and your marriage are in trouble then, please try marriage counsling first before you make any rash decisions. Remember, kids are always the losers in a divorce.
2006-11-05 07:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋