2006-11-05 07:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Sexy Bitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's off limits to both of you until HE makes a move. I was in the same situation in high school. She was (and still is) my best friend from the age of 6, and the guy was another one of my best friends. We agreed that it would be a shame to lose our friendship over a guy, so we agreed to not pursue him, unless he pursued one of us. He ended up having a crush on her, and she even went as for as telling me if I didn't want her to date him that she wouldn't. Seeing her happy was enough for me. Now that is best friends are about. She dated him for a few months and they broke up. The guy grew up to be the kind of guy neither of us would want to be with, even as just a friend, but her and I are still best friends, and have been for almost 20 years.
2006-11-05 07:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You back off immediately, and tell her so. No guy is worth losing a best friend. I have had my best friend for 40 years and I had to back off a couple of times. It was the best thing I ever did, we're still best friends! (and I can't even remember the guys' names lol) Good Luck!
2006-11-05 07:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my little corner of the world friends come before romance. I would back off and be happy that my best friend found somebody that he liked
2006-11-05 07:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy also likes my best friend, I would move on. There are plenty of guys, aren't there?
2006-11-05 07:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by frivologs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend talks about that type of thing all the time, if you think it's only because you like this guy... She could be jealous.
2006-11-05 07:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a Boy is Muslim than you both don't have any problems.If he is a non Muslim than think about priority basis as whom he gives priority.If your friend likes him - means she is not your real friend.Or she ( I mean your friend) likes him because of you as you are close friend to her.As a friend she has the right to share with him.
2006-11-05 07:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it so you don't lose each other. The guy will have a choice too. Or like both
2006-11-05 07:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by cirenek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend likes the same guy as me and what i do, because i liked him WAY longer, nothing, unless she makes a move then her azz is mine. ; )
2006-11-05 07:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who liked him 1st---i wuz n this situation b-4--------it broke my friendship up-my BEST friend, haven't talked 2 her n 2 years, it's up 2 u if it's worth a friendship....it wasn't worth it 2 me.
2006-11-05 07:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by anjL_iiiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur friend about it. See who he likes... but don't hurt ur friend... and don't let him come between ya'll... if he likes both of ya'll maybe you all should just b friends..
2006-11-05 07:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_mickeyickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋