So as I was saying...theres this guy and I hate his guts. He is 28 years old and he lives with me and my mom. She says hes a "room mate" but I think theres more to it. You'd have to be pretty stupid to believe that nothing was going on. And today I was about to eat my FAVORITE kind of gum and I only had 1 piece left...and guess what he took it from me and ate it.And I would of not made a big deal about it if he didnt tease me by making chewing noises and saying it tastes soooo good. And IM sick of him. All he ever does is take away my ideas and objects and teases me. He also makes my mom believe that Me and my sister are doing things that are so bad and gets us in trouble. well yesterday my sister couldnt take it anymore and left. she took her stuff and moved right out. Shes going to live with my dad in Utah. Should I do the same? I mean I love my mom and I love living with her, and I can tell her this guys bothering me,but I dont think she would understand. Please help!
2006-11-05 06:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you poor thing unfortunatly this is common but i would stick with your sister untill your mum comes to her senses, sometimes women need love and affection so much from men that they forget about others, please she will need you when this guy shows his real self and believe me it will happen. just do not treat your mum bad in anyway please. she has hormones that screw her up sometimes lol please be happy
2006-11-05 06:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that he wants you out of the house doing this actions that affect you.
You decide who wins you or him. Is your mom she needs you and you need her, I dont think the solution to a problem is to run from the problem, talk in private with your mother or eat together and speak about your feelings, listen to him, maybe this is a big misunderstanding maybe not.
2006-11-05 21:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and tell your mom whats going on and tell her if it doesn't stop you want to move in with your dad like your sister did. Good luck.
2006-11-05 14:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least try to tell her how much this guy bothers you. She may be more understanding than you think. If you talk to her and nothing changes, themn I would consider moving with your dad
2006-11-05 14:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that ur mom should respect urs and ur sisters feelings as the parent she is supposed to be ... and she should concider that u and ur sis dont like it .. talk to her and then if nothin changes id say live with ur dad until sh can realize that u should b more important good luck
2006-11-05 14:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you really can do. it's your mom's house and she is free to date or have whomever living there that she wishes. i would check into moving in with your dad. this guy seems very immature.
2006-11-05 14:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom he makes you horrible uncomfortable and that you hate him. If she cares shell boot him out.
2006-11-05 14:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL her. IF she dose nothing leave.
2006-11-05 14:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋