I am 25, unfortuately still living at home with my parents due to the fact that i just finished school. I had just started my new full time job, but have to stake out living at home for several months in order to save up. Keep in mind i live in NY which is very expensive.
Anyway im in a situation where they are so controlling. I can't leave the house without letting them know where im going, my boyfriend is not even allowed in the house because they don't like him. I love him so much. My parents are the type of people that no matter who i bring home they have a problem. There is nothing wrong in my eyes with my bf. I refuse to make the same mistake twice-a year ago i broke up with my ex of 3 years just to please my parents because they didn't like him. I refuse to do that again. I totally regret doing that. My mom has tried to set me up with guys through her friends. I put my foot down and absolutely refused, a war broke out but i don't care. anybody else had it rough at home?
2006-11-05 06:05:52 · 11 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its not just the bf thing that drives me crazy, when im on the phone my family ease drops on what im saying, Whenever i have plans with my girlfriends my mom says comments and tries to tell me to change the plans, its really frustrating. Plus i get a lot of blame because im in an italian household "im disobeying my parents" . please give me a break im just trying to have some freedom of my life
2006-11-05 06:08:16 · update #1
If you want to take advantage of the situation to save money then you have to grin and bear it. No you should not break up with someone and go with someone else because that is what they want but if they don't want him around than you need to respect that. Spend time with him elsewhere until you can get a place for yourself. Consider it motivation to move out. Living on your own can be tough but will most likely also be one of the biggest joys of your life.
Remember, this freedom you seek will only come with distance.
2006-11-05 06:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jason T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time at home is just about over, as for your controlling parents, think of it as a lesson on how not to be a parent, Do not let your mom have her way about your boyfriend. You choose him and they will just have to get used to that and I would advise them of that when you walk out the door.Also have you thought about getting room mates or moving in with room mates, I know this can be risky but worth a thought
2006-11-05 06:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by magoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweety, You sound like my life, I moved in with my parents after my divorce I was 30, with a kid, THE SAME EXACT RULES THAT YOU HAVE, nuts i was going crazy too, I to had to break up with a couple of single men, It made me soo mad, But guess what, I got a better man in time, and it took me long enough to realize that my parents were right all along, Because, my 2 ex boyfriends ended up to be in jail, or re-married, or the one died, But like i said in time, you will find somebody else, but better
2006-11-05 06:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to follow your parents rules as long as you are living in their home. My advice, save your money and get a place of your own.
2006-11-05 06:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents always wants what's best for you, but you have to tell them you are a grown woman and that they lived their live and let you live yours, tell them you situation maybe they especially your mom, may be they will understand it's always a bad idea for a mom to set up their daughter with their friends tell her you have to right to choose not because y ou live in their house they should still threat you like a kid, tell them it makes you uncomfortable when they do that
2006-11-05 06:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by jagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..i moved out and supported myself at age 17......if you don't like their rules....Go get yourself a place to live and start paying your own way.....While under the parents roof....The parents rule!
2006-11-05 06:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 25 . Time to move out on your own.
2006-11-05 06:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gobind T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the only one that can take the next step it will be hard at first but it will be worth it in the end
2006-11-05 06:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only choice is suck it up & follow their rules.
See your BF elsewhere, and move out as soon as you can.
2006-11-05 06:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋