2006-11-05 06:00:55 · 18 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know and am beginning to think there is no way but, when you figure it out let me know.
2006-11-05 08:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by LKJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can get over that pain and anger is with self help.
You have to come to conclusions that it wasn't your fault and that people do things that aren't fair but that life is too short to waste being angry.
You have to move on and remember as long as you're a faithful and good person, you will find someone that shares a mutual bond with you and that will be committing.
It's essential to love yourself especially in a time like this. You have to care about yourself and do things for you, it makes you stronger and more independent.
2006-11-05 06:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not an easy question to answer. If you really love that person and you want to stay with that person I would suggest some counseling. Give it some time if you still feel that you can't get over it then it might be time to move on. As long as your happy, that's the most important thing.
2006-11-05 06:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that I am going through the same thing, It has been one year and I still feel as though it just happened. The worst of it is that she does not take responsibility for it and that makes it harder to forgive. If you cant forgive her than you will live with the resentment and thoughts of seeing her with someone else for a long time. This will affect your ability to live a normal life. Good Luck
2006-11-05 06:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by kingkong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that the ultimate form of revenge is to carry on with your life and be happy. The anger and pain heal with time.
2006-11-05 06:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and cheat on someone yourself...oh ok.... you don't always get over but you are very cautious in the next relationship and you better be up front that you have trust issues because the last relationship you had you were cheated on... good luck
2006-11-05 06:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by samshel1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of time- believe me. You can forget about trusting them ever again; but if you love them and they love you enough to try to earn your trust back- then it's worth sticking around.
But it also depends on your unique situation. No two people are alike, so this answer may not apply to you. Just do what is best for you.
2006-11-05 06:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Guatie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I BELIEF U WILL NEVER GET OVER IT SPECIALLY IF U R W THE SAME PERSON, I THINK IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON AND TAKE A LITTLE TIME OFF UNTIL U FEEL READY FOR ANOTHER CHANCE W SOMEBODY ELSE, JUST REMEMBER THAT NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME ,TRY NOT TO JUDGE UR NEXT GF AS IF SHE WAS THE ONE THAT DID IT TO U.
REMEMBER ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER
2006-11-05 06:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by j4eimh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, put one foot in front of the other one and get on with your life. It will be hard but someone better will come along that will not cheat on you and will love you for you.
2006-11-05 06:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cheesy, but time does heal all wounds. Try to remember that there are trustworthy people out there..you just got stuck with a bad apple, and move on.
2006-11-05 06:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just take the hit and move on. Cheaters cheat.
2006-11-05 06:04:19 · answer #11 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋