I have a friend who use to be the best person in the whole world. Not just to me but almost everybody, but she was most attentive to me. She was so interested in me, as in a friend way, she was always by my side more than my best friend, my best friend is nice and all, but sometimes when she's having a bad day or jealous of me, she puts me down, by saying I'm not very artistic or creative, or I have a huge zit, or a mustache loudly for all the guys in my class to hear. But she, not my best friend but the one I'm talking about, stands up for me, and like this one time I cried cause a group of girls ask me something really personal, but when I refused to tell them, they started picking on me, and stuff so I ran out crying, She was in a totally different class, when one word reached to her, those girls made me cry, she rushed to my side w/o a sec. thought. We spent summer apart and when we got back to school this year, she was a total different person to me.
2006-11-05 04:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I say hey, she doesn't even look my way, when she does she looks at me with this disgusted look on her face. What's happen? Why has she changed?
2006-11-05 04:12:26 · update #1
Why is she treating me so differently? I'm not giving up on her though, like she use to do, I'm standing by her all the way, whether she wants me to or not, she's my friend, and friends must do what friends do.
2006-11-05 04:15:25 · update #2
What r u talking about M E A? If you're referring to what those girls made fun of me of, she knew what they ask me, and respected my right to keep it to myself, unlike most people.
2006-11-05 04:19:45 · update #3
People grow out of each other. Face it now....this will NOT be the last time a friend outgrows you. I would never surround myself with people that make me feel bad. I think you should be more mature about it and let it go. Try to focus your time more on someone who makes you feel good about your relationship. Really, these are silly games that kids play and one day you will look back on it and realize just how ridiculous they really are.
2006-11-05 04:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I feel that someone spoke to her while she was on her vacation against you as in something you didnt do or say has been told to her. So insted of feeling bad and all just go to her and clear the air and if you and not comfortable that way i am sure you must be having her phone number just call her and tell her everything that is there in your mind. Words play a very importan role here and you have some many things in you mind and you are telling us the best is to tell her all this. I am sure you both will patch up and once the air will be cleared things will be as before.
But here i would also suggest after you speak to her and you have cleared everything and told her how you feel but she still is not bothered and does not want to have anything to do with you, for you sake and for self respect just let her go. Sometimes you have to let go. You don't always get what you want.
And i know you have not asked anything about your best friend the one who at times makes fun of you. Please she is not your best friend. Dump her first. Remember a bestfriend is the one who stands up for you in front of others not runs u down. Dear she is not your friend.
2006-11-05 18:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that way then u need to talk to her.Tell her all that u told us and ask her how u can get this friendship on the right path again. She might of heard something that she thinks u said about her or anything.There could be many reasons why she is doing what she's doing. You will only solve this by getting her alone and haveing a real honest discussion with her.Good luck Plus some of these people answering are jerks so don't give them the time of day.Thats what they want is to upset u.
2006-11-05 04:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U R really standing by her side go and ask what is the problem and try to solve it IF U R really want her Go and talk with her if she never likes U to talk with her and find what is the actual problem was because like other no one can come and solve the problem here U have to sort out the problem and solve it
2006-11-06 00:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is a person who stays by your side at all times and if you really want to be at her friend prove your worthy to be one. Always be there at her side at all times and even if she doesn't care your there. Don't give up on her because a friend is like no other and you'll feel so bad of losing a friend who's been by your side for a long time. Goodluck!
2006-11-05 04:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Zashtaquir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened with me but with adifference that i also cared for my friend like he did for me.The reason could be that she might have come across something wrong about you as misunderstanding.She might be facing some other problem due to which she changed her attitude.The reason could be that she might have become more mature and maturity increases stubborness.Weboth are passing through same situation we can be friends.My email id is bhavya_richirich@yahoo.co.in GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-05 18:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the summer she might found another best friend for her and or she might found weird secret about u and changed herself..life is like a chapter once u open the next one, the previous shud be closed..U just forget her..
2006-11-05 04:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 07:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her flat out. Someone may have started a rumor that you said something about her & the longer you go without confronting her the more she is going to think it's true. Be honest & tell her you miss her & want to know why? Let me know how it works out
2006-11-05 04:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she can tell you why she changed. If you still want to be friends with her , you should try asking her about it. If she continues to ignore you, there is nothing you can do. Move on and never look back at her
2006-11-05 04:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Eileen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋