Even if she was dating before you seperated.
2006-11-05 04:08:44 · 21 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi guy, it is difficult to figure out, but it is all what you are comfortable with. I went on a date finally after about 3 1/2 months. It was odd, a lot of things going on in the big head and the little head, but it was just a date, nothing further. Little steps, go with what you are comfortable with. If you are seperated, you need to confirm that she is on the same page and there is no reconcilliation about to happen. No, you do not have to wait for a divorce, it is just a piece of paper.
2006-11-05 04:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by harold p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For moral reasons, I feel you shouldn't date until the divorce is final. Even if you are separated, you are still lawfully married. Show some class (even if your wife isn't) and wait. It also keeps the headaches of the divorce drama away from any uninvolved parties ( meaning a woman you might begin dating ). Wait until the divorce is final so you give your full attention the new lady in your life.
2006-11-05 04:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if you want to "get back" at her or not. I would recommend waiting until after you are completely over the situation. You will "mourn" the end of the relationship. This will be different for different people. I waited well over a year to start dating again. But that was what was best for me. Only you can decide what's best for you. Look deep in your heart and decide for yourself.
2006-11-05 04:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the experts say at least 1 year, but that doesn't mean you can't go out and enjoy yourself. After a traumatic experience like divorce we tend to not make the best decisions, so give yourself some time to heal before jumping into a serious relationship.
2006-11-05 04:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by paulamcneil1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe dating is not the question its really trying to rebuild yourself and social circles. I been separated starting my third year. I suggest that you find groups that are just going out to do things together and relieves the pressures of dating because its not fair to date until you are happy with yourself first.
2006-11-05 04:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time,sorry your spouse didnt understand the sanctity of marriage so I wouldnt even call it one,get past it and try again and maybe this time youll find the right one for yourself,whom respects you as you would them
2006-11-05 04:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that there is any time specific to start dating again. You know in your heart if the time is right for YOU. If you are healed and ready to move, then by all means do so! I wouldn't feel guilty over it as you have already stated that it was over for her before the split.
2006-11-05 04:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who has the kids? Dating comes second if you have kids. Find a woman who wants you for sex only. Use her for fun till the divorce. Then find a date.
2006-11-05 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you've healed......and you're ready to date! You'll know when that is......don't do it until you're ready though...take as long as is necessary. How long that is, is as different as we all are. It might take 6 months or a year, depending. Just don't rush it! Good Luck!!
2006-11-05 04:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the tail lights are out of sight, get moving.
You'll be damaged goods, so don't talk about your ex or that you are recently separated, those topics will find you alone and sad this winter. Let me know how it goes.
2006-11-05 04:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋