2006-11-05 03:43:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you feel it comprises a big part of your identity, then yes. If he may have a problem with it (religious, moral, etc.), then yes. If you think you may have difficulty with monogamy or want to engage both sexes at the same time, have a girlfriend on the side, of try a threesome with him, then yes. Basically, ask yourself if the information will make a difference in your relationship and how he relates to you, and if it does, you should tell.
Otherwise, no, you don't have to, but I encourage it- I think couples should share everything about themselves. Just be clear you're telling him so he knows, not because you want to get freaky with him and a girl, etc. (unless that's true . . .).
2006-11-05 07:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as soon as it feels like it's more than just a few dates. It's something integral to who you are and healthy relationships are about honestly communicating who you are, how you feel, and what you believe. If you wait too long, it could be received as lacking enough trust in the relationship to be honest about yourself, and if he's gonna have a big issue with it, then you know he's also gonna have an issue with a very important part of you. Doesn't make sense to hide and wait.
2006-11-05 03:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes YES YES
If you are bi will you e monogamous and satisfied with a gay partner or will you want to involve a third? Your partner as the right to know your thinking......He may have VERY DIFFERENT VIEWS......I would never be in a relationship with a bi guy
2006-11-05 04:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by robert14454 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're planning on being monogamous it shouldn't be an issue. That is, I don't think you should have to go out of your way to bring it up, considering it doesn't necessarily matter all that much. That said, I think it could cause problems if you find yourself avoiding the issue, or lying about it should it come up. I'd honestly take the casual route; maybe pick out a girl you think is attractive and tell him or something.
2006-11-05 14:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to have a close relationship with the guy. If he is just a fling he doesn't need to know.
2006-11-05 04:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Black Dragon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well---define--too far.......does that mean at the point where you are virtually not supposed to be seeing anyone else...then if so he deserves to know...It's probably easiest to tell him right away before there are any real emotional issues to deal with.
2006-11-05 04:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. A relationship is about honesty tell him.
2006-11-05 04:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you plan on keeping someone on the side, then definately set him know what he's getting himself into.
2006-11-05 04:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on taking it farther than just someone you date on occasion, yes.
2006-11-05 04:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋