2006-11-05 03:04:11 · 28 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obedient = NONE. Caring, sharing and accommodating all you can. You are not his child or pet so obedient is not your job.
2006-11-05 03:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In the stone age or the 1900 people would say 100%. But since were in the 2000 and since women fought for equal rights. I don't think either should be obedient to one another. It's more compromise, sharing and problem solving together.
Although I had a friend not to long ago. You would have swore they lived in the 1900. She was at his beck and call. It drove me mental. I started to talk to her about it. She acted as though I was speaking a different language. Then I realized they had been together for 18 years, they were happy the way things were. So what right did I have to put my two cents in.
I also have met couples that the man thinks he's the king and anyone he sees that's beneath him. He's disrespectful and controlling. This worked for them for a while. But the woman out grew the treatment and started pushing for her independence. It made for a rocky relationship. Some men are raised that they are the provider, the man of the house and make all the choices that effect the family.
I had a husband joke once, that if I was born in the 1800 I would have been burned at the stake.
2006-11-05 11:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First at all,a woman is not a husband's slave.Secondly,she is not a child and the husband is not the parent.The point is that both: husband and wife need to have an agreement, about how to handle the marriage.Both need to respect each other;and that is the only way a marriage can be.The husband is not the boss's wife,both are human beings,who need to live with honesty,love,peace and helping each other.To be a man does not mean to be a boss and the wife a slave.To be a man in the marriage mean to treat the wife as a fragile glass,and to treat the wife as a Queen.Wives and husbands need to Obey God,and respect one another.
2006-11-05 11:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about obedience but try saying respect!? Well, I think it is wonderful for a lady this day in age to respect and look up to her husband as long as he's being a real man and is respecting his wife in turn. It is a great feeling for a wife to feel secure in a marriage. Men play a different role in the house and when he deserves it the wife will treat him like the King that he is.
2006-11-05 13:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
0% Obedient. A woman is a human being not a dog. I husband and wife need to compromise and work things out where both their needs are met, both are happy, and thriving in the relationship. Respect each other. Neither one should control the other.
2006-11-05 11:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A women should NEVER be obedient to any man! A relationship should be about respect, love caring and understanding among many other things. If the man or women asks the other to do something or for something they should never feel they have to do anything. If one wants to say no they other should except their answer weather they like it or not. It's called compromising. I am wondering why you ask this question?
2006-11-05 11:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women should be 100% obedient to their husband according to the Bible .That doesn't mean he can be a dictator and rule her life. He can't MAKE her do anything . The two of you should work together to make the marriage work. MARRIAGE can be a wonderful arrangement if both people work very hard at it and there is a loving commitment for both of you.
2006-11-05 11:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand your question. But I do think that women shouldn't have to be obedient to their husbands any more than husbands should be obedient to their wives. Marriage is an equal partnership, not a relationship between a master and a slave.
2006-11-05 11:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Avie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i dont really like the word obedient....i dont think that u can be obedient to someone u love or someone that loves u has to make u obedient....i think in a relationships both sides must discuss each others problems and then find solutions obedience is not the answer to a good relationship...
2006-11-05 11:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those days are over!!! Us woman have just as much right as men.. A relationship should be equal..Obedient is such a strong word and should only be used when referring to our parents.
2006-11-05 11:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None lol. A woman is a human being she should have a say and compromise with her husband
2006-11-05 11:06:30 · answer #11 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋