i know why my life is so mess and i know how to fix it but i dont?

Answer 1

Change is scary and this could be one reason you're not motivated to "fix" your life. Finding the motivation to help yourself is very hard. People tend to get comfortable in their routine, no matter how messed up it is. Tell someone close to you that you want to clean up your messy life, and ask for their help. Someone to "nag" you so to speak. This may help, or it may be you're not quite ready for that change. But since you're aware of it, it's only a matter of time before you'll finally do something about it. I wish you the best, don't get discouraged.

Answer 2

It takes courage to change, and it doesn't come overnight. We get comfortable. The unknown is scary. What you need to do, is anticipate, visualize and DECIDE upon the better outcomes; you manifest what you can envision for yourself. Imagine how wonderful your future can be by dropping old, negetive behaviors and replacing them with ones of YOUR OWN fulfillment.....use your imagination. It isn't work or drugery that way, it's a life mission. It will just keep getting better and better, because it's entirely YOUR journey....Life happens, sometimes it is wonderful, sometimes shznitty. It has to do with loving yourself, and giving yourself the props. YOU deserve better, forget what others think...

Answer 3

Easy, you enjoy the drama of it all. The reason you don't fix it, you are worried that you would be bored. Just guessing.

Answer 4

i kinda get you...im in the same boat..., sh!t is totally fu,cked up in my life, but ive been used to it for so long that i really am just dealing with it, and this is my norm. now, so i am just staying with it.. i think some of us just dont like changes... or just dont even care how our life has become.

Answer 5

Well, then you will never be able to blame anybody but yourself. It is your call