why people divorce & mostly why the problem isn't solving?

Answer 1

People get married out of loneliness, and later find out they are not compatible with their spouse.

Answer 2

problems can be solved by communication, being honest about our feeling's. but some people don't communicate, and by the time there are serious troubles in a marriage, one of the two in the relationship has betrayed the other one, by seeking love and emotional support outside the marriage. the one problem that is too hard to solve is after there is betrayal, because we know and wonder why they didn't come to us and discuss whatever it was, before sharing it with another. most things can be fixed if both people can fairly communicate without hurting the other. sometimes it's the words spoken that can never be taken back that wounds us, and those wounds keep us from communicating, and working out differences.

Answer 3

Some people divorce because half the time its not the problem that can't be resolve, the person can make it hard to resolve that problem...for instance i'm getting a divorce and my husband and I try to solve out problems, but he doesn't put his effort to change and understand the situation at hand...we can do so much for the marriage to stay strong, but if there is no understandin from your partner then the problem would never be resolved.

Answer 4

Well, the divorce is solving alot. It may not seem like it for awhile, when the 2 have to get their feet wet with the knowledge that divorce is what they have done, how to get on and do things without the other one. How their going to adjust.

It solves the heartache as time goes by. And it solves one to get a clear head on which way to go.

It just takes time. But it is solving.

Answer 5

People divorce for many reasons. The first is the love is gone. The love dies after years of not being able to solve the problems or one or both partners causing the problems and not wanting to change. It is a difficult decision to make but sometimes the best one. You get to stop playing the blame game and accept the facts and move on trying not to make the same mistakes in the future.In my case this answer is how it truly is but the blame game continues do to hate fact that he got to keep my name on the property and in a sense I divorced him but couldn't get rid of him.
~UGH~

Answer 6

all too often we let things or situations into our lives that have a tendency to take away from the time as a family unit. for instance, if a man sat at the computer all night and didn't go to bed with his wife, then he would in return want to sleep most of the morning, and have no time with her. my first husband had this exact problem, he started to ignore me and our children pretty early on, i tried to make it work, and stayed in the marriage for 7 years. the end result; an ugly divorce and custody battle. there are so many other distractions and with the peaking technology and the need to constantly advance in social and financial ways, we just keep falling farther apart.

Answer 7

Sometimes you don't have any choose. You can't make someone stay. That is not always the case, but for the most part it is. It is obvious with a lot of the questions people ask in here. I believe that true love should be binding and when you truly love one another you will be willing to work through anything and not let the small things get the best of you.

Answer 8

There are basically two reasons why marriages have trouble, and there are no others.

1. Someone expects the other to change after marriage.
2. Someone expects the other to not change after marriage.

People grow and become different throughout their lives. Sometimes the changes are small, sometimes they are huge, but they are never in the control of another person, nor are they predictable.

Money is not the cause of marriage troubles. It's a result of non-cooperation.

Answer 9

Because sex is natural and monogamy and contracts are not. If you lived with your parents, you'd be expected to one day outgrow them. If you were a bird, you'd be expected to fly away from the nestonce you became full-grown. Why is it people think they won't outgrow a relationship with the opposite sex in much the same way? Then, they have to deal with the legal issues and the children that were produced during this liaison...much easier to NOT get married and just enjoy the ride while it lasts...in the end, you take what you came with and enjoy your friendship without the hassles

Answer 10

People get married before they grow up! Children are having sex. Young children are given games that have sexual activity in them, and we wonder why Johnny has a banana in his pocket at that age. We look for big hooters instead of a stable family background. We look for Big baggy pants instead of a nice supportive job. We look for escape from our parents instead of advice from them. Wake up! This generation wears it's pants backwards, why would you think anything else they do wouldn't be backwards too?

Answer 11

I understand what you are saying. I think the problem will be solved-in time. I went through the same thing and it takes time and work..if I understand your question.