whats the signs of cheating man?

Answer 1

He comes home late.
He does his own laundry.
He shows less interest in you and sex.
He spends more time away or at the computer.
He erases the evidence of where he's been on the address bar of the computer.
Hiding cell phone, or home phone records.
He seems happier.
He brings you flowers or gifts (only if he wants to stay with you)
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Good Luck!

Answer 2

Alternating extremes in levels of affection.....really lovey dovey (he's feeling guilty) really mean (he is waiting for you to retaliate so he can justify his infidelity by actually believing that you are horrible to him) really indifferent (has lost all interest and doesn't care) really hot for you (the "other woman" said "NO" and he's still in the mood). Other signs include:

- a previously contented-to-be slob suddently sprucing himself up with new clothes, new hairdo, staying back late at night (he is really trying to impress the OTHER WOMAN with his 'style' and isn't staying back at work to work)
- a completely different style of dressing (SHE is a new age hippy or a ball crunching executive)
- criticism of the way you do things (SHE does everything else better!)
- suddenly wanting to try new stuff in bed (trying to perfect stuff he's done with HER - and he's practising with you)
- quiet, secretive moments where he doesn't want to talk (he's daydreaming about HER)
- excitability when he gets home from a late night at work - over-interested in your day (feeling very chipper - he's just been with HER and is feeling pretty good about himself - and a tad bit sorry for you!)
- not telling you anything about his day (he might slip up and give you some reason to suspect that he is cheating)
- 'prank' phonecalls (SHE just has to talk to him - but you answer instead)
- reluctance for you to accompany him to social events - particularly if they are work related (he is hoping to sit with HER)
- money is suddenly scarce (he is buying HER presents)
- a sudden interest in previously avoided subjects - e.g. your cooking(offering advice) dogs (you don't own any) or yoga (he doesn't attend classes but now he's an expert) So - SHE cooks better than you, owns a dog and is a yoga instructor....
- lack of interest in television or sudden interest in a show you've been watching for years..........now he wants details and regular updates (SHE has been watching the same show as you for years and he told her that he has been watching it too - to impress her!)
- sudden interest in reading books - particularly if the last thing he read was the cartoon section in the newspaper (SHE just finished 'The Da Vinci Code')
- lack of interest in sport (too busy fantasizing about HER or too busy because he has spread himself too thin)
- asking lots of questions about womanly stuff - like he's preparing for an exam (he is trying to impress HER with sensitive new age guy crap)
- sleeping on the opposite side of the bed (you are not HER - he told her that he is being 'faithful' ha ha ha)
- spending all his time at home with the children and ignoring you (he's preparing for access visits)
- he doesn't look you in the face (because his eyes will betray him)
- he closes his eyes when you kiss him - that is - if he LETS you kiss him (He is imagining it is HER)

Of course it is different for every man. This is just a general guide. One thing you can be sure of - if you have asked this question - that means you have a gut feeling about it. Listen to what your gut is telling you. He is cheating!

Answer 3

his interests have changed,what use to make him happy doesn't anymore. it is as if u don't matter anymore, he no longer asks your advice, he finds falt with you on every level. he suddenly got a cell phone, and goes into another room to talk, your no longer invited to his family's house. he tells u he must work out of town, but if his bos calls don't tell him he is working outside the company, he tells u his work will require he stay over night, but than u never see evidence of any money for the job. he doesn't make u feel beautiful, infact if theres a disagreement he name calls, not in a joking way but in a way that hurts your self worth. truth is he no longer value's u because he has her, and she is doing all she can to get him to leave u and be with her. he seems as if he isn't there anymore, yes physically he is there but emotionally he is not, gone are the talks u use to have, and decisions u made together, all gone. and we really don't know what is wrong, or why he is acting like this. but we will know soon, as soon as he decides to leave. it will all come out in the open and we will be the last to know.

Answer 4

It all depends on the type of affair and the quality of your relationship. There are different signs of cheating for different situations... http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/catch_cheating/public/signs_of_infidelity.html

Answer 5

staying out late when he has no friends. working late when his job is absolutely 9 to 5. finding women's undergarments in the car. lipstick on his collar. hotel bills in his wallet. those photos you get from the private investigator after weeks of having the cheating *** followed.

Answer 6

If you have already caught him cheating once and suspect he is cheating now, you are right. You can always trust a cheater to cheat.

Answer 7

He seems to not be as interested in you as he had been in the past. His desire for sex diminishes. When he does have sex with you it is not as intimate and he seems to be in more of a hurry to get it over.
There are changes in his daily or weekly routine, such as working different hours, showing interest in other activities, such as sports that take him out of the house. Fishing, hunting, going to car races, etc.

Answer 8

I suggest that you should look to "Jehovah" for guidance in this type of personal situation. He know you and your other very well. Look to him and he will guide you.

Walk by faith and not by sight. :0)

Answer 9

ghe doesnt go out with you, you dont know where he is, you dont get introduced to his buddies, he becomes unavailvble on his cell and he has two cells he wont let you read his messages or his phone numbers

Answer 10

working late, hanging out with his friends more, shows no interest in you for whatever reason, starts looking and smelling nice (cologne), going places with his friends that you are not invited