There is someone on this site who can't seem to let go of her hate for me. She turns her own traits around and says they're mine. She makes up lies about me and uses my name (I won't use hers). She tries to goad me into continuing this "fued" (her words). She holds on to it like it's her life and I think it is. Why does she do this? Do you think its' because I have exposed some of her lies in the past? I fear she is deeply disturbed and I'm glad we don't know each other in reality. I do not hate her and I wish she would move on with her life to healthier pursuits. This will be the last time I allude to her. Has anyone had similar experiences with people hanging on to hate?
2006-11-05 00:57:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She researches all my answers and questions on a daily basis and forms questions based on those answers and questions. She's really creeping me out!
2006-11-05 01:02:13 · update #1
prob because shes insecure about her self and has to take it out on a better person(which would be you in this case)
2006-11-05 03:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by luckyxlovee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is the way some people are.they are capable of wasting their lifetime away by hating whatever once irritates them.it is not healthy and not your problem,forget it.try to think of it as a virus,that will mutate in spite of all you do.cut her of.she will either find another victim soon or one day come back to thank you for it. the second option is unlikely,but not unrealistic. for some hate is a hobby!
2006-11-05 01:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by kathrine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some personality researchers think that our personality comes from our attempts to protect ourselves from being lonely and helpless (called basic anxeity..because we all felt that way when we were younger). So now as adults we develop styles to continue to protect ourselves. Some people try to move against others and this makes them feel powerful and protects them from that feeling of being helpless.
In addition, this helps to make sure that she has a connection to you....
2006-11-05 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by drkencarter 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I wonder if you have the same stalker I do! She has made many an enemy for herself hasn't she?!
Just ignore her like I do. Go on living your life, asking your insightful questions and answering with your knowledge, she is putting an awful amount of her precious energy into you, use that energy for good.
I think this is so funny, and I used to think she was talking about me, she's probably talking about you! She's so paranoid that she thinks I have multiple accounts on here. LOL hahahha, how funny. I bet she reads this and burns like hell inside...LOL!
2006-11-05 01:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She hates herself. If she is researching your stuff, and you find that you were wrong then look on the positive and learn from the info that she means in a negative. this way you profit without effort.
2006-11-05 01:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Wart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Researches all your questions and answers and forms questions and answer based on those...how would you know that unless you were watching her too?
I think you both are nuts!
2006-11-05 01:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even know you could do stuff like that, nothing is safe on the web! Anyway, I am shocked, you should report the "abuse" to Yahoo... every time you see her on Yahoo... report it... after so many abuse reports - Yahoo!Answers - boots you off,forever!!
2006-11-05 01:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the reptilian part of the human brain working against you
2006-11-05 01:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate is somtimes easyer to deal with people dont get me wrong hate is a strong word, but somtimes people have nothing else to do. keep your kind heart just dont you hate, and dont sweat yourself on small stuff life to short.
2006-11-05 01:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my wicked mind I only thrive on revenge......
2006-11-05 01:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋