Like I would like a guy who is nice and charming and wants a releationship. I mean i always give the world to the people I love. But I have a habbit of falling in love with guys that dont love me back or is just using me for some fun. I mean Im probably not the best looking guy around but I am nice, fun, inovative, and I believe that has a lot to do with what people want. Anyways if you know anyone that has the answer to this let me know. Why do I always choose the wrong ones to love?
2006-11-05 00:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by brandenbaby 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try not to put yourself out there too much. Don't wear your heart on your shoulder. Guys will walk all over you if you let them. Play hard to get. Be mysterious and elusive. Dont make yourself look "easy". And dont jump on the first invite out... Make them do all the chasing...
Have some self pride. You may be desparate, but dont let them know.
About choosing the wrong ones to love... maybe thats what your attracted to... maybe thats what you want... re-evaluate what your looking for in a guy... and put yourself in check on what you want and what you can get... Don't invest too much on a hopeless cause... Dont date a guy hoping to fix them... Hold out on love till you find they right guy. In the mean time bang what you can.
Best of luck to you...
2006-11-05 01:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by johnanthony_77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't believe you are worthy of being loved and respected. You settle because you don't really believe you deserve better.
You can address this by seeking out counseling to get a handle on your self esteem. You can also get busy to help make yourself as attractive as you think you need to be. Somethings you cannot change, but others you can use to the best of your ability.
Get involved with something you are passionate about, whether a cause or a hobby or simply an interest. Get involved with groups that focus on these things. There you will meet like minded people and you will actually have something in common. You have to have something to bring to the table in any relationship.
Stop acting so desperate, users can smell that a mile away. You are in control of your life, no one can take advantage of you unless you let them. Good luck to you.
2006-11-05 09:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl I respect gay people just for the fact that they are like they are and they accept it and feel good being one you gays are great people I am not gay myself but I respect you gays you have feelings to you are also humans btw to your question go nightclubs gay night get out maybe there you will meet a handsome guy that you like or look for a web site online where you can chat with gay people maybe you can meet one you need to go out and search if you really want a man right now btw good luck finding a person that you will LOVE ;)
2006-11-05 09:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about being gay is, you have to date guys...lol. And look, I'm stereotyping, but I doubt anybody will really argue that guys tend to be selfish, pragmatic (as opposed to romantic) and think with our penises. Of course, I still believe there's somebody out there for everybody. You can find that one good one, but it might involve a lot of practice...lol. I've been w/ my current bf for 3 years.
2006-11-05 10:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in time
2006-11-05 09:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by sidekick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard.
2006-11-05 13:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
de[pends on how old you are if your jail baait forget itt.
2006-11-05 08:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋