My kid has a boy she likes but she is only in fourth grade! I wat to get her ready or tell her that this happens later
2006-11-05 00:47:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you sure that "your kid" has a crush or YOU have a crush? Cuz you just asked a question about you having a crush earlier.
2006-11-05 00:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a crush on a girl in 2nd grade, but I didn't tell her until 9th grade. And 30 yrs + later...I still love her. Of course she didn't feel the same way back then so it's just a warm fuzzy memory of her.
Kids get an overdose of sex on TV and at the Movies and in Music/Music Videos. Is it any wonder 10 yr old girls are starting to dress like sluts. Is it any wonder they are interested in boys?
The whole key here is to educate the young lady about the facts.
Fact 1... Boys are dogs
Fact 2...Boys only want one thing
fact 3... they will say anything to get that one thing
fact 4... Once they get that one thing they look for a new girl and the whole thing starts again.
Fact 5... let her know that someone will come along when se is older that will really love her. That will really want to marry her. And that will make her happy for the rest of her life.
Fact 6...Boys are Dogs! Oh I said that...well it needed repeating.
When you have a boy...you only have to worry about one boy... when you have a girl you have to worry about all the boys. the sooner she knows why...the better. You certainly don't need a 13 yr old that's pregnant.
And for you moms with boys...teach them about respect.
2006-11-05 01:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can not determine when your child is going to like someone. we wish it were that easy. the good thing is that she is only in fourth grade. and where can she go with him? the lunch room. so, relax. in a couple of months she will have a crush on another boy.
2006-11-05 00:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It helps for anyone to have their feelings identified. Let her talk about her feelings as they are real. Then set down your guidlines and your thoughts about this matter. This is all a part of life, but she should not be ready for the "dating" scene. Teachers can probably tell us that this is when the hormones start kicking in.
2006-11-05 00:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep an open minded enviroment in the house.tell ur kid everything whether it is good or bad.make her ready so that no one does anything wrong with her .disscuss every thing . do not hide. good luck!!!!!!! my dad told me this.n im13.but aware of the happenings around me.
be ready if she needs ur support in any way.
P.S. do not let her lag in her studies but also let her be free n open minded to u
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-05 00:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by kurudo_akabane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a crush on a new kid... wrong?
2015-05-14 16:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had my first crush when i was in like pre-k so i think it would be fine
2006-11-05 00:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not?
2006-11-05 00:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by clara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋