i have a sister she is thirteen and i love my sis very much and i have taken care of her from the age of 2 we used to play and work together.. an year ago she wouldnt talk to anyone and would not eat atall she used to have secret meetings with my mom and one day i accidently touched her chest and saw that her breast was developing and she saw me and she refused to talk with me.. is the breast responsible for her aloofness?
2006-11-05 00:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by q te man 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no, i do not think it was JUST that. Not eating at all is probably anorexia, which is usually because she feels unsecure so she wants to lose weight, she probably does not want her bro to take any part in her puberty, it is usually a girl thing between a girl and her mom and sisters if she has any. She probably did not like you touching her, even if it was an accident. Puberty is the cause of her aloofness most likely, and her developing breast is part of puberty.
2006-11-05 00:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seduling secreate meetings with your mum is probably her and she just having girly chats, if she is going through puberty (and it sounds like she is) she will hav questions only a girl can answer and she will probably go to your mum as she is an adult she can trust. Your relationship with your sister will change as you grow and change. Just make sure you are there to protect her as big brothers may need to do. I am concerned that you say she is not eating, if she will not talk to you, tell your mum so maybe she can talk to her about it. Weight incecurities are normal around this age but not eating is just dangerous and possibly life threatening.
2006-11-05 09:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by midgetryley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be, but why don't you ask her directly, it will make you feel better
2006-11-05 23:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by hope55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe might be anorexia
2006-11-05 09:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋