I made a most regret thing in my life. This year i am only 13 years old and i had make my 12years old girlfriend pregnant. Now her baby was 2months already.... I thought she wont pregnant because of her age. How can i tell my parents about it and my family hav finacial problem.I asked her to go for abortion but i not enough money. Need how many month only the stomach of my girlfriend will show more obvious because i scare her parents will find out. Please help me to solve my problem. I dont want to be father so young.
Is it making a 12years old girl pregnant is a crime?
Do i need to break up with her ?because it wont be my problem if i break up with her.
Is virgin important to a 12years old girl?
2006-11-04 23:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by evolutionf330q 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think, you should inform both parents and discuss this problem. You guys are still young, and I thk that you guys will need ur parents consultations on this. No point worrying when her parents will find out as this makes no difference at all. No matter how, things have happened and you have to show some responsibility. Breaking up with her won't solve your problem at all, because you are the one making her pregnant and ,thus, it is still your problem. Be fair to her and yourself.
If u regret now, then it is time for you to solve this problem with her. If you really love her, dun run away from this problem. Face it and surely there will b a solution. Your parents will certainly try their best to help you in tis problem.
2006-11-04 23:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by ryanmononoke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A crime to officials no. But to the parents yes. If the parents find out you're in big trouble. You might end up in court to be justified. And it's too late to break up with her. Even if you break up, her parents will hunt you down. Virginity is important for a girl of ages 10 to 21, so that they can develop emotinally and spiritually. Being pregnant at the age of 12 does not make her ready to be a mother. Just tell the truth. Accept the critics, and beatings from your parents. Once it's over everything will be back to normal.
2006-11-05 07:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Marc G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already posted this a few moments ago and were getting the same responses!
ONCE AGAIN.....LET'S RECAP>>>>>
13 huh....that's funny, there's a question you posted an answer to in which you state you're 16???
Regardless....where are yours and her parents?!
Babies having Babies...tisk tisk! DISGRACEFUL! idiocrosy
#1 Your family is going to find out eventually
#2 HER family is going to find out eventually
#3 NO Dr is going to perform an abortion on a TWELVE yr old CHILD
#4 If you didn't want to be a father so young...you shouldn't have been PLAYING "grown-up"....
You're not gonna be the father anyway any more than she'll be the mother. It'll be either yours or her parents that fill those roles, although hopefully they'll be a better role model for that poor baby than they were for either of you!
Way to go....you should be very "proud" of yourself....kid.
2006-11-05 07:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you both need to go to your parents immediately. Your girlfriend's body may be able to have a baby, but it is still not developed enough to do so safely without a doctor's supervision. She needs to be sure to get proper food and medical care so both she and the baby stay healthy.
As far as being scared, that is understandalbe and your parents will probably be very angry, as well as hurt and upset. BUT, you decided you were ready to have sex so now you must be ready to accept the consequenses. Breaking up with her does not change your responsibility. She can still take you and your family to court if you try to leave without helping. You have made an adult choice and must step up and take responsibility for it. It is sad you will both have to grow up so quickly.
2006-11-05 08:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether this is illegal or not depends on where you live. The most important thing, if your girlfriend is pregnant, is to tell an adult as soon as possible. I know it's scary but this baby is on it's way whether you like it or not now and your girlfriend is far too young to deal with this stress and worry alone. You need to be the man here and help her through this, that means biting the bullet and asking for help.
2006-11-05 07:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by celtic_beaut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, getting a girl pregnant is not a crime, unless she didn't willingly have sex with you. Breaking up with her would make you scum, and not really absolve you from responsibility. I suggest telling your parents, and her parents also and looking into adoption. That is the only solution, and I bet you will feel better when you have some adults to help.
Also, STOP having SEX. You are only 12 and 13!
2006-11-05 07:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by nycgirl2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow
FIRST OFF if you are 13 she is 12 wha in Gods name are you doing having sex what are you doing and what are you thinking
you know now you both have to deal with a young baby
and that is a responsibility and a half i dont even know where to begin why would you guys do something like that ?????????
AND NO abortion is not the answer if you were capable of having sex you better be able to take care of the baby
you have to tell your mom the truth and she has to tell her mom the truth i dont know why yu would do something like that
do you know how much this is going to affect your life ?
do you relize the responsibility you just took on as a parent ????
you both need to tell your parents so she cango to the doctors and make sure nothing is wrong with her because she is pregnant
the last thing you want is something to be wrong because she is 12 and she is NOT fully developed she still has to grow
you both NEED to tell your parents even if they get mad
you have to
AND ABORTION IS NO THE ANSWER IF YOU WERE CAPBLE OF HAVING SEX YOUR CAPABLE OF TAKING CARE OF YOUR SON/DAUGHTER
YOU SHOULD OF THOUGHT PRIOR TO HAVING SEX WHATTHE OUTCOMES WOULD BE HEY IF YOU ARE NOT FINANCIALYY PREPARED GET A JOB BABYSITTING MOWING LAWN AND GET READY TO BE A DADDDY
AND NOOOOOOOOOO ABORTION IF A ABORION ACCURES YOU MAY BE REUNNING YOUR GF LIFE BECAUSE SHE HAS TO LIVE WITH THE FACT THAT SHE KILLED A KID AND SO DO YOU
I WISH YOU THE BEST LUCK AND HOPEFULLY
YOU'LL MAKE IT REMMEBER NO ABORTIONS
LET US KNOW THE OUTCOME
2006-11-05 07:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by filicia b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You took the ride now you take the fall..
2006-11-05 08:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yah dumbass, u shouldn't be having sex until u get married
u ****** up everyone's life
2006-11-05 07:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by katty_ferguson 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋