I made a most regret thing in my life. This year i am only 13 years old and i had make my 12years old girlfriend pregnant. Now her baby was 2months already.... I thought she wont pregnant because of her age. How can i tell my parents about it and my family hav finacial problem.I asked her to go for abortion but i not enough money. Need how many month only the stomach of my girlfriend will show more obvious because i scare her parents will find out. Please help me to solve my problem. I dont want to be father so young.
2006-11-04 23:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by evolutionf330q 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Is it making a 12years old girl pregnant is a crime?
2006-11-04 23:12:31 · update #1
Do i need to break up with her ?because it wont be my problem if i break up with her
2006-11-04 23:15:33 · update #2
Do i need to break up with her ?because it wont be my problem if i break up with her.
Is virgin important to a 12years old girl?
2006-11-04 23:16:10 · update #3
13 huh....that's funny, there's a question you posted an answer to in which you state you're 16???
Regardless....where are yours and her parents?!
Babies having Babies...tisk tisk! DISGRACEFUL!
#1 Your family is going to find out eventually
#2 HER family is going to find out eventually
#3 NO Dr is going to perform an abortion on a TWELVE yr old CHILD
#4 If you didn't want to be a father so young...you shouldn't have been PLAYING "grown-up"....
You're not gonna be the father anyway any more than she'll be the mother. It'll be either yours or her parents that fill those roles, although hopefully they'll be a better role model for that poor baby than they were for either of you!
Way to go....you should be very "proud" of yourself....kid.
2006-11-04 23:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you made this mistake and am glad you realize what you did. You are going to have to tell your parents and her parents and possibly a counselor. Just go up together and break the news, there is no other way . But do it soon, the longer you wait the madder they are liable to get. Yes, you might be able to get an abortion IF there is a chance that it will harm the 12 year old for free (Major surgery will have to be done) Otherwise, abortion is not an option .No matter what you do, this child is still biologically yours and will always be "your problem" as much as it is "her problem" What I would suggest you do is tell the parents and then look into putting it up for adoption if you can not afford to take care of the baby.
2006-11-04 23:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by terra_chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's one hell of a problem. You mentioned the baby is 2 months it is obvious now by an inch. By the third month, get ready because her parents are going to find out why her menstruation has stopped. And it's way too late for abortion. The embryo is growing and by it's second month you'd make things worse just by aborting. The baby will still grow, but is dead in the womb. It could only be removed by doctors. Try breaking it down to your parents gently. You're not the only one dude, there are a lot of cases like that. If your girlfriend gives birth, there are two options to take. Either have the child adopted or have your parents raise the child. Besides the both of you are emotionally not ready to raise a child. You still have a lot to learn. This is one problem, that can't be prevented. Get ready.
2006-11-04 23:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marc G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a little to late to say but if you did not want to be a father then you should not of had sex. At your age the best thing to do is to let both of your parnets know. There are to many things that can wrong at her young age no legal doctor would even give her an aborition with out her parnets knowing and i dont want to think you going to an illegal doctor. Be wise and now that you thought you were a man to have sex act like a man and stand by her and tell boht your parnets.
2006-11-04 23:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An abortion can be performed for free in some clinics, you should look into finding a clinic that will perform the procedure for free as soon as possible. She will probably start showing that she's pregnant in a month or two, so you don't have a lot of time.
2006-11-04 23:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by William E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you’re only 13 and you’re still a kid. How funny a kid having a kid. What were you thinking!? Now you ruined both ur life and ur gf’s life. Abortion is wrong so u’ll have to cope with it. Also, u guys should get married despite how young u are.
2006-11-05 13:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by hoolagirl12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it, tell your parents and her parents too. Too late for regrets now. Abortion, not a good option. Consider adoption, but really that's not your decision to make.
TIME TO USE YOUR BRAIN NOT JUST YOUR HEAD! GET IT?
2006-11-04 23:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by xman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reaport this to parrents both of u emediately as soon as possibel .it is not troubel now but after word u r going to in big troubel .go and tell now get up and tell them. U r kid and kids do wrong thing parrents know that so go now tell them
2006-11-04 23:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do the crime, then you must do the time. Tell your parents, they will do everything to help you in your decision. good luck!! regardless of what happens it will be the best and you will feel better about yourself.
2006-11-04 23:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should really talk to your parents...and the parents of your girlfriend. they migth seem angry at first, but they are the only ones you can count on...you can't manage to do everything when you are only 13...
2006-11-04 23:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋