My husband is always doing masterbedding even when I am sleeping with him . I always have seen him doing this in the morning and I am quite worrid that he is gay or whether he has got a another women.
2006-11-04 22:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by mama p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure it's normal...if he's in the "master-bedroom" LOL
(Never heard it called "masterbedding" before! LMAO
2006-11-04 22:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is quite normal for many men to still masterbate even if they have a healthy sex life
basically it is just the way the male of our species is. I read somewhere that males think about sex something like every 3 minutes whereas for woman it is once a day.(I can't remember the exact figures)
if his doing the deed while you are apparently asleep beside him upsets you- then ask him to please go to the bathroom
masterbating certainly does NOT mean that your husband is either gay or has another woman
men read porn magazines ; fantasize about other women - this DOES NOT mean they want the other things
sounds like you need to do some research/reading on the differences between men & women & as someone else said what is normal for 1 person is not necessarily that for somebody else
2006-11-05 00:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing it at night or early morning he may be dreaming about sex, probably because he is not getting enough in his waking hours.. You are his wife, why don't roll over and take care of him if you see him doing it? A married man shouldn't have to play with him self.
P.S: He is playing with himself now. You don't get on your job, he might find another woman like you fear.
2006-11-04 23:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a little above the boards when you have a wife there. Maybe you'd better take a look at yourself and ask why he would rather use rose and her five sisters than you, somethings amiss here.
Ask him if he's satisfied with you or? what's the problem, maybe it's him?
2006-11-04 22:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's trying to send you a hint. Sometimes directness is not always effective. Example, my "former" caught me, and when I told her right out of my intentions, she giggled at me, rolled over, and went to sleep. I was advised next day of my "excessive " need for sex. Yeah, we think about it alot, and I believe on average of every 10 to 30 seconds. We are a rather strange breed. As I'm seeing it, you state he is next to you when he's masturbating. At least he's there with you, and as others have said, communicate with him. That's about 85% of what marriage is. Good luck.
2006-11-05 02:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him. If you don't want to and it is bothering you ask him to go in the bathroom or another room. What is normal? Everyones idea of that is sooo different!
2006-11-04 22:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had another woman he wouldnt need to.
you should help himout when he does that.
Its normal if he does it all the time it may not be normal for others.
2006-11-04 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by realestate_leader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard a co-worker complain about that once. She wanted to get laid, he wanted to play with himself. They are divorced now. I don't think it is normal but then what is?
2006-11-04 22:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by industrialconfusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you ; why don't you have sex with your husband? He is having to satisfy a need that you could easily do.
2006-11-05 00:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dint know about gay but i do know about another women thy do some thing you dint read dint make no seam it he got a another women he Levey you some day for her
2006-11-04 22:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋