Lately I cannot stop crying. I'm going out with this guy and I'm very content but my mum doesnt know that I'm going out with him but I have mentioned him to her a couple of times. And I hate lying to my mother but i really dont know how to tell her. I go out on weekends only and y'day I met him and then I had to go somewhere else with my friends but he said that he prefers it if he remained there. Then on my way to this place I just started crying. I'm really not sure of myself. and i dont want him to let me go just because we dont meet as much. am i fussing too much ?
2006-11-04 22:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you are worried that he will "let you go" because you both cant meet as "often", then he isn't really right in the first place.
Stop your crying, theres plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-11-05 00:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Delusional- Ignore me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop crying but you're very content. Read that until you understand it.
Buck up and tell your mother, what if for all this time you were torturing yourself about this and your mother would like him? If you don't think she'll like him why not? Does she have a point?
Crying all the time is not content. You don't need this. Tell your mother or break up with him. Gee, don't I get a third door? Sure, keep doing what you're doing and be miserable and probably get yourself into trouble to boot.
2006-11-05 07:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all. Sounds like you're not old enough/mature enough to be playing this kind of game.
Because hiding the relationship from your mother must makes it "forbidden fruit" and an act of rebellion not a good choice made out of good motives.
Break it off yourself and find someone that you're able to introduce to your mother or introduce this guy to your mother but quit making it a game.
2006-11-05 08:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by The Divorce Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound old enough to be going out with a guy just yet. You don't state your age.
2006-11-05 06:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. And you are bargaining for future trouble by keeping your guardian angel (MOTHER) in the dark. Confess to her and you will be rid of half your trouble.
2006-11-05 06:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋