2006-11-04 21:23:42 · 23 answers · asked by nins 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
first i would like to tell you i am so sorry some people decided to be rude to you with their answers. of course you will find love, you deserve it. love is not earned, it is a right you have just like anyone else. love is not given or determined by any of the factors you listed in your question honey..love is not shallow or based on things which fade in this world (looks, money, intelligence; we don't take it with us!)
love is not finding the right person, it is being the right person. be that person to yourself by holding your head high and KNOWING that you are wonderful and beautiful, and the right person will see it in you and love you for it.
you will find it, i promise. just believe you deserve it cause you do. someone is out there who will be lucky to get you : )
2006-11-04 22:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by verykari♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being rich, pretty and smart is important if you are waiting for someone to come to you. You need not be passive, dear! Go out there and find a guy whom you love - believe me, that is more important than who you believe loves you. Once you give your wholehearted love to a guy, he will certainly respond to you. But that is much later. Right now, just find an anchor for the bliss of love that you need to experience within yourself.
2006-11-05 05:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by small 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Real love isn't about intelligence, wealth or beauty. Superficial love (infatuation, lust etc) may be but why would you want that anyway?
There is someone out there for everyone.
The most important thing is to love yourself and not need anyone. Then the right person will just suddenly appear unexpectedly. Don't look for love & it will find you.
& don't be so hard on yourself! I'm sure you're not giving yourself enough credit!
:)
2006-11-05 05:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can when the time comes. Love is definitely not for those who are smart, rich or pretty only, love itself has no prejudice. I mean it is for those who are mediocre, not so rich or not so pretty too. Just look around and see.
2006-11-05 06:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Arigato ne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone, you should not be biased on yourself if you are smart or rich or pretty.
but 1 thing is it is not easy to change someone's bad habits or characters - it needs time to change.
ps: do not be too hard on your guy if you like or love him and let him have some days off to replenish his energy from his work if his work is very very tough job. you could still sms him though.
treasure him just as he treasure you but there are times to rest and time are times to meet.
cheers and good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-05 06:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Finding love is not all about looks, money and intelligence but more about the fond of each other being themselves! I'm sure there's someone out there whom admires you for who u r, so juz be patience and he'll appear! You have my blessings!
2006-11-05 06:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ignatius corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...
nins, YOU mite think ur not smart rich or pretty..
but evry1's opinioon is different!
trust me, der'll be millions of ppl on earth who thnk ur smart n pretty! (n being rich or not dsnt matter ok, so 4get abt it)
i used to think th same way!! lol.. but nw ive realized.. beauty lies in the eyes of the beolder, n der'l b surely millions who wud love to love you!
really!
love, kozizi.
2006-11-05 05:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by kozizi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can.
in fact you already have it. Consider this carefully and you will discover that when you love YOU, you become VERY attractive no matter what your superficial circumstances.
2006-11-05 06:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by equericon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure , because Love is a Fate Destiny , no one can plan to love or to be loved
just increase your selfesteem, then your inner beauty will glow outside to lighten everybody 's eyes
2006-11-05 05:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-11-05 05:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋