He keeps saying that it would turn him onif he could watch me be with another man, but I know he was saying that because he REALLY wants to be with another woman.. what do you think.?
2006-11-04 20:46:14 · 21 answers · asked by shellnjay 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No way.. If my hubby wants to be disabled the rest of his life then he can try but it's not in his best intrest.. I love my husband and he is a good man so I don't have to worry about this..
If he would try though then it's on...
2006-11-04 20:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by lisa_sonydadc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner and I have done both threesomes with a man and a woman. If you have a solid trusting relationship and it is something you BOTH want it can be fun and rewarding. If you have a jealous streak or think it may lead to risky or other unhealthy behaviour then I would nix it quick. For some couples fantasies need to stay just that. To be honest once you start fullfilling fantasies you can end up in some bizzare situations to beat or get your fix. Good luck.
2006-11-05 04:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have and still know a lot of people into open relationships. Here is what I've seen. There is no closeness in the marriage. The other woman or man will try to push the first one out of the sandbox. So if you love this man don't do it.
2006-11-05 04:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tedi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if it was something I wanted to do. I wouldn't be pressured into it, which is what it sounds like is going on here. Some fantasies deserve to stay that way- hot stuff you'd never actually do. Be careful when other people come into the bedroom; a lot of bad stuff can happen, especially when you already doubt his intentions and honesty.
2006-11-05 04:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a recipe for disaster if you're not in a stable relationship with clear and open communications. Even the slightest hint of jealousy can turn the whole thing into something ugly.
That said...
We have an open relationship because it fulfills both of us. It's our fantasy come reality, not just for one of us.
2006-11-05 04:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by --- 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
More importantly what do you think? How do you feel about it? Personally I'am not in that situation and don't think I could live with someone who would be turned on by that.
But if your okay with it, then why not, a lot of couples do, but you both have to want to, do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
2006-11-05 04:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hunch may be quite right. I would say that there are fair chances that he wants to go for another woman.
The real questions though will come up next morning . Would you will be able to cope with after effects? It can very well lead to friction and difting apart. Beware if he says something implying " if you love him , you will agree". Its a kind of blackmail.
2006-11-05 04:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by rian30 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you think of something,its has no harm to anybody.But every action started with a harmless thinking.WHEN the thought come,you will wish to acheive it.If something like that ever occur,it means that he wish to have it but if he tell you about it,it might that he is prompting you something else,such as wilder bedtime?Now,you think!
2006-11-09 00:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way I could ever let my husband have sex with another woman,or me to have sex with anybody else.I would never ever do something like that.
2006-11-05 04:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by ducky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! it's a reason it's a FANTASY... so that it stays in his HEAD.
If you agree, you're playing with fire. If he really wants to be with another woman, then he doesn't respect you. Look out. He's a cheater at heart!
2006-11-05 04:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋