My husband was accused of molesting his nephew and was in prison for 15 yrs. When i asked did he do this he said no that he was set up because he was living with his brother at the time and the wife didn't like him and said that he molested his nephew because the kids were going to get taken away so this was her way of keeping her kids. So she said that my husband molested the little boy. for some reason i feel he did it because before we got married i caught him with another man about to have oral sex
2006-11-04 20:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by COOKE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why would you marry him if you caught him ? Sounds like you need some counseling. You can't change him and you are at risk having sex with him...ever hear of aids ? Sorry to be so blunt, but you better wake up! I hope you don't have children around this guy.He is lying and you know it.
2006-11-04 20:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Suzette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband was in prison for 15 years for molesting his nephew, I think it's a safe assumption that there was overwhelming physical evidence to help convict him. That's a long time and even though it's deserved, 15 years is rare when it comes to sex crimes. If he actually did all 15 years, you'd better find out (why). Guessing that he's a molester because he was about to have oral sex with another man, is kind of lame. Pedophiles and homosexuals are not the same.
2006-11-05 04:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ignorant. Just because he may be homosexual/bisexual and was going to give oral sex to another man does NOT by any means imply that he is a child molester. You would do good to learn that!
As for what you should do, well I wouldn't be with him to begin with. He sounds like a bum. Why was he living with his brother if you were married and why didn't he have a job to support himself? Is he uneducated, lazy or something?
2006-11-05 05:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did that in jail I guess so that's why you caught him, the oral.
If you can't accept him now for being bi and wanting men, you need to move on. As far as the nephew, only they know the truth, that was a long time back. If he likes to give head now, you wont stop him and have to let him.
2006-11-05 06:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have married him. Actually, I would not have even seen him anymore after I found out. I think there are a few folks who get convicted of crimes they did not commit... but 15 years?? He is guilty, and you know it too, that is why you asked this question to begin with, hoping someone will tell you otherwise.
2006-11-05 07:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**Pray.**
Talk to a theraphist before your husband comes home.
Think of what you want to do with your life. We cannot judge as we are not in your life. Do you wish to continue to live with this man, knowing what you do?
I cannot tell you. It is your decision.
2006-11-05 04:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by strong1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself who he was doing in prison or who was doing him!You should have ran before you married him
2006-11-05 05:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a Klondike bar?
2006-11-05 04:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,,, i damn sure wouldnt be married to him....
I have learned that instincts are there for a reason.....listen to them....
HE is a perv honey.....and they dont ever get cured..........
2006-11-05 04:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you married him anyway, you need as much help as he does.
2006-11-05 04:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋