i aint making this up. he's not really my teacher but another teacher in my music school. specifically a drum teacher. he first talked to me when i was alone practicing a riff with a metronome in one room and then he would talk to me and complement me everytime i see him. sometimes he even invites me out. he acts like he like me. holds my hand and stuff. and does the puppy dog face when i leave. is he just nice or something? i feel weird and scared at the same time. he's a fun nice guy.. god. help. no one knows about this.
2006-11-04 19:27:53 · 23 answers · asked by Jules 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thank you for the answers. btw, i never went out with him. i already told my teacher but he ended up teasing me every day. he jokes about him never growing up and stuff. he never told me his exact age but i just knew it from my teacher. he usually says 17 or seriously 25 but god knows he's lying. youre right maybe he just thinks im a cute kid or reminded him of some1. but the weirdest incident is that when i was waving byebye, he grabed my hand and stared and said bye sweetheart. thanks guys..
2006-11-04 19:51:03 · update #1
if you really like him, you'll leave him alone til you're 18. otherwise you could be the reason he goes to prison.
2006-11-04 19:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O'My Stay away...at 15 it can be really hard to decipher weather you are just feeling your hormones or feeling scared ..If I was you I would be scared. You might not understand the mentality of a 34 yr.old but he sounds like a scary predator...Stick with boys in your school who are in school...The worst thing that you can do for yourself is get caught up with a guy who has been around the block , knows what to say , how to say, & when to say...A man at his age should be working on women his age or near and not a vulnerable your woman who is confussed with her own 15! Don't Do It ! If it becomes uncomfortable, by all means talk to a teacher or counselor and tell them that you are having a problem!
2006-11-05 03:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in the fouth grade I was so in love with my teacher in fact it's funny to me now that I'm older. But some people get crushes on older people. I'm not sure why but It's better not to act on it. I would Tell a best friend or someone you trust but don't tell him it might make some problems for you because he is older. Well It get hard but you have to try not to let it bother you. I hope it work out. I've had two teacher crushes. The other one I was in JR. High but that one I ended up having to be 25 feet away from him because My friend wrote him a mote that I had a crush on him so be careful And PRAY. Put it's all funny NOw...............
2006-11-05 04:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jules whether your a boy or a girl, this guy is a predator. And he will take advantage of you, he already has. As a teacher is not allowed to touch you in any way. That is unethical. He knows this. And he is playing with your mind, playing games like that puppy dog face crap. Your feeling weird because it isn't right what he is doing. Please tell your parents they will not get mad at you. I promise you this. This teacher has done something very wrong to you. And he has done this to others in the past you can be assured of that. Your not the first one this has happened too. So please, don't take this lightly. It is very serious. I don't mean to scare you but you need to tell your parents right away before something worse happens to you by this pervert. I can't stress this enough to you, to please talk to your parents. They love you and want to protect you from creeps like this that do this to innocent kids. So I hope you heed my warning and talk to your Mom and Dad. Believe me they will be so glad that you did.
2006-11-05 03:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm a guy. I've liked my female teacher before cuz she was really hot. But ypu've gotta get that mindset in ur mind. You're a student. He's a teacher. Besides, the age gap is too wide. It might be a little bit better if you have feelings for him. But in this case, you don't. So maybe you should avoid him or get things straight with him.
2006-11-05 03:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Justin C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gosh... I'm a 34 year old teacher who teaches 15 year olds. I think your teacher is stepping over some major boundary lines. Some adults are not trustworthy no matter how nice they seem.
This man may be one of those. Trust me: all teachers are given guidelines for things like "appropriate touch with students" and are aware that their students may develop crushes on them.
Please do not be alone with this man, and PLEASE tell an adult that you trust about what has happened. DO NOT GO ANYWHERE ALONE WITH HIM. He could just be a misguided nice man.... but don't risk it. He could be out to hurt you.
And, honey... don't be ashamed of the way you are feeling. It's natural to be attracted to others. But a teacher can NEVER have a relationship with a student or minor. PLEASE (!!!!) tell an adult about this.
2006-11-05 04:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's holding your hand, it's inappropriate behaviour. Like it or not, you are a kid and you should be dating other kids your own age. He's a grown man and should know better. It's not your fault that he's manipulating you. Stay away from him. If something happens between you two, he's going to jail for it.
2006-11-05 04:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by yessiamcute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay girl you should really stay away from this!! Its okay to have a crush on ur teacher but dont do anything outside the boundaries okay!!
usually all girls go thru a stage where they love their teacher but most of them just leave it as a crush..The ones who dont get their teacher in BIG trouble.They go to jail on paedophile charges and you will probably neva c them again.think about this b4 u do anything stupid!!!
hope ive helped
contact me if u need mroe advice
secret sparkle..
2006-11-05 03:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by +++_Secret.Sparkle_+++ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is grooming you for sex. Just stop seeing him outside of school. It is illegal and morally wrong for a 34 years old teacher to even think about doing anything with a 15 years old pupil. Do both him and yourself a great favour and drop him now!!!
2006-11-05 03:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by hharry_m_uk 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if it feels wrong then it is wrong. trust your gut.
and if he is a teacher and you are a student then there should be no going out anywhere unless you are on a field trip and there are 25 other kids around you. you need to tell your parents or someone else around you that can help sort this out.
2006-11-05 04:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young teacher, the subject
Of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly
Knows what she wants to be
Inside her there's longing
This girl's an open page
Book marking - she's so close now
This girl is half his age
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Her friends are so jealous
You know how bad girls get
Sometimes it's not so easy
To be the teacher's pet
Temptation, frustration
So bad it makes him cry
Wet bus stop, she's waiting
His car is warm and dry
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Loose talk in the classroom
To hurt they try and try
Strong words in the staff room
The accusations fly
It's no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by Nabakov
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't do it
2006-11-05 03:47:45 · answer #11 · answered by Thurston Howell III 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋