Her house is next to mine.
My friends encourage me.
But when I told this to my mom, she says that its not good.
Now, my friends say, "don't say all these to your mom".
Is it wrong from my part?
What will you do, if you are in my position?
2006-11-04 17:17:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im also from india and im muslim. First you must be sure that the girl likes you back and you must tell her. If your families are very strict about their religion it will be very hard wed and live a happy life with one another. If not, then let her meet your parents. They will grow to like her. You must tell your mom because will find out one way or another if you marry her. It's almost like all the indian movies where the couple elopes or something and they are always thinking about their parents.
2006-11-04 17:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by shygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you haven't expressed this to her yet....then....well, I am inclined to think that this 'love' is not so strong, perhaps we are talking about lust? or maybe a crush? In any case, assess your true desires. Are you really interested in HER, or is it just exciting to think about 'doing something different,' tasting the 'forbidden fruit,' etc. How much are you willing to upset your mother for the sake of this interest? For me, my family is more important than anything. That said, I have dated people of other religions/races, but I always share my feelings with my mother, and help her to understand things from my perspective. She helps me to see things from her perspective. Together we help each other see life situations more clearly. (OF COURSE THIS IS NOT EASY!) One more thing to consider: How old are you? Are we talking about just having fun, or marriage? Clearly you should talk to your parents if you are thinking about marriage. Good luck!
2006-11-05 01:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue. Over here, we can date whoever we like, if they like you back. If you are going to get into some sort of trouble or even worse, then stay away from her. Also, you dont have to tell your parents everything you feel especially if they dont honor your feelings.
2006-11-05 01:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand the custom of why parents must be involved in making this determination for their children.
Why ask mom? do you need her permission?
2006-11-05 01:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is hot (hard to tell with all those layers of blankets muslim girls wear) I'd ask her out. I'd have to frisk her for explosives first.
2006-11-05 01:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Muslims. It cannot end good. Either her family will murder you, her or both of you. Those people are nuts.
2006-11-05 01:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for it,love as nothing to do with religion,If you love her,anything is possible,Good Luck
2006-11-05 03:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bridge your religous differences to be One harmonious entity, living in peace and mutual happiness.
2006-11-05 01:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by ŚţΰāŔţ ● Ŧ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋