Okay well my friend thinks she is fat. I bet you are like O boy another anorexia problem. Well it isn't. I just tell my friend she is going through pubirty(she is 12) and she is going to loose it and it is baby fat. She didn't listen to me and know she hasn't eatin for 4 days and yeah What should I do?
2006-11-04 17:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by Britoeknee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also she is going through serious depression...You know the whole stereotypical emo stuff. Cutting. Um I tried to tell her parents, but that made it worse.
2006-11-04 17:07:32 · update #1
well im 15 and well i went through the same thing but ive gone through what people call growth spirts since i was like 3 id get chubby and then get tall and be skinny and then go back to chubby and then taller and skinnyer.. the best thing she can do is find a way to gain self confidence and where clothes that make what she likes about herself looks good in the first place look even better and while doing so eat right ... i thought about starving myself to but i found out that when you starv yourself as soon as you eat your ody is going to take what fat it can out of that meal cuz your body doesnt know the next tme its gonna eat ooooo and drink tons of water i hate it soo i buy fruit2o ..its so freaking good i can go through cases of it.
2006-11-04 17:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to call a teen hotline. They're free, and anonymous. Also tell her that different ppl hav different body types. Not everyone is built like a toothpick, and not everyone should look like one! Compliment her on outfits and stuff like that to boost her self esteem. Also, by not eating, she'll lose a little weight now but she'll end up gaining it right back and gain even more. Good luck!
2006-11-04 17:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Let her know that someone loves her. Let her know that she has so much to live for. And the eating, well, that is something she'll have to work out herself. Also, try notifying a couselor. They are there to help with stuff like this.
2006-11-04 17:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jeru_Salem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this world focuses so much on the isea of being perfect i tell you what the only perfect person is a person that can look in that mirror and truely truely say to themselves i love you for who you are and not think anything else about it
so go to hell you over symbolised america we are all beutiful and i dont care what you think
2006-11-04 17:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by lover6672000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that by not eating and then starting eating again she'll only get fatter because her body is storing up the ..err.. fat.
and let her know shes being stupid and that youre worried and if she still isnt eating by the fifth day then let her know you're telling her parents.
2006-11-04 17:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, that is horrible! I would tell her parents. Or tell her she isn't fat or something. I hope she doesn't devolup a eating dissorder:(
2006-11-04 17:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by 1Einstien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TEll her my sister ate lots of veggies and lost a lots of weight she is 13.
2006-11-04 17:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would jsut take her out maby get her a date make her feel special like she is not fat you no make her feel loves most ppl who say there fat are despreat 4 love
2006-11-04 17:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by brooke j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents.
2006-11-04 17:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. You care about her. Please help her, dont ignore this.
2006-11-04 17:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋