2006-11-04 16:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Fuming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say that your friend is a (gay) guy based on the fact that he"/"she has such big balls (to do that right in front of you). Seriously, this dork, who is may just be putting out her feelers to see his reaction or harmlessly flirting, is insensitive at the least and may end up being a class A jerk. In no uncertain terms you should let her know that you don't appreciate that kind of behavior, regardless of her intentions and if she persists it will affect your friendship. You may want to talk to your boyfriend about it and with his blessing, tell her that he has confided in you that although he would never say it, her advances make him very uncomfortable. Keep in mind that if your boyfriend encourages it, it will continue, if he ignores it, it will probably go away. Maybe he's the one who should say something?
2006-11-04 16:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Big Brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is a flirt, she may not realize that she is doing something wrong. If she is blatantly hitting on him and doesn't care how you feel, she isn't much of a friend. The question you may want to ask is, what kind of response is your boyfriend giving back. It sounds like your friend is trying to draw attention to herself maybe because with a boyfriend, your time for her has been shortened to include him in your life and she is reacting in a (though wrong) manner to get your attention whether it is good or bad.
2006-11-05 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is probably not the best friend you could have... Try talking to her- is she jealous? Did you do something to upset her? Appologize for whatever it is, unless it's completely rediculous... the point here is not to make her even more mad! Then tell her that regardless of what made her do it, that it's not ok and you don't want to be friends w/some1 like that. Tell her that if it happens again you won't let it go.
2006-11-05 01:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a dam thing because a real friend wouldnt hit on my boyfriend.and my boyfriend would be too preoccupied because of my presence to worry about anyone else in the room anyway.
2006-11-05 00:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by joejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouls say right in front of him and her .....Could you be more obvious (her name) ....do you want me to leave you 2 alone .... or maybe you want to rent a room
Look at the reaction of you boyfriend that doesnt seem to mind the flirting .....If they both are what the F$5&?
Then tell her and him that you dont like the little childish game that they are playing right in front of your eyes and that if it doesnt stop ...you will stop your friendship and you will stop your relationship because you dont need that in your life ....
You deserve a more mature friend and boyfriend
2006-11-05 00:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbelle_oceane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend would never behave in this manner so you need to lose this person and find yourself a true friend with some class.
2006-11-05 00:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that once, key word "HAD". Let her know you are hurt and disapointed, and felt very let down, then let her down. Your friendship with her may have to be put on hold for a while or ended all together, it depends on her reaction to your feelings.
2006-11-05 00:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I wouldn't call them a friend. Then I would tell them exactly how it made you feel. Always be upfront and honest.
2006-11-05 00:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by M P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters I would be getting a new firend to replace that one.
2006-11-05 00:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own,this one is mine.
2006-11-05 00:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋