So to end this series of questions about my friend. Should I tell his girlfriend what has happened between us to relieve this guilt that I am feeling, and in turn lose my friendship and any hope of having a relationship with him. Or should I just let them be together and let life play out and see if they will end up breaking it off. I plan to wait for him, but wait for him while exploring what else could be out there. I know that he will get jealous (we both get jealous of each other when we get involved with other people), but I can't sit around and wait. I'm still young. I just need advice on what I should do. Tell her or not?
2006-11-04 16:19:06 · 4 answers · asked by kckell2311 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I talked to his best friend about the situation last night and he told me that I shouldn't tell his girlfriend because she really loves him and would really be hurt, but the thing is I think I love him too, I think I always have, and I think I've been in love with him for the five years. She's only known him for like 6 months! Plus she's alot younger... there's no way she could even know what love is at her age!
2006-11-06 09:46:49 · update #1
if he loves you as much as he says he does then he would break up with her unstead of telling you to wait just because he had to when you went out with someother guy...tell him that if he really loved you he wouldn't make you wait and break up with the girl he's with...also find someone to go out with...who cares if it makes him jealous he obviously doesnt care that he's hurting you by going out with this girl...and yes you should tell the girl what happened and what he's been saying she has a right to know...and if it does ruin it then he's not the one for you and he's obviously playing you and her, if he loves you as long and as much as he says it wouldnt ruin it at all
2006-11-04 16:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really you should, she does have the right to know, but if you really want to save alot of **** from happening then just leave it and forget about it. But if she does find out, then you will probably be worse off cuz you didn't tell her. Its really your choice just consider the consequences of each decision
2006-11-05 00:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him about your guilt and give him the oppertunity to tell her first. if he refuses to, thats when you tell her. and dont let him lie and tell you that he told her when he didn't. make SURE, somehow, that he told her. why would you want to be with somebody who leaves his girlfriend for someone he cheated on her with anyway? what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you? just think about it.
2006-11-05 00:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by blessbtbam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No C other peeple then say when u break up w/ her ill break up w/ him!
2006-11-05 00:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by smartchika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋