My best friend is kinda of depressed because her mom has been a ***** to her and the other day i noticed a weird mark on her arm so i asked her what it was and she told me cut her self and i dont know what to do
2006-11-04 15:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by jordy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to someone, even if it's your own parents if you think they would understand & try to help. If not, then try a teacher or guidance counselor at school.
2006-11-04 15:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to an adult you trust immediately. She may need psycological help, and an adult can make that judgement. Her mom may also be abusing her; because of this it is also important that you tell an adult. It is out of your hands. Still, tell your friend how beautiful she is and what a wonderful person she is, take her out on a "girl's night" to the mall, and listen to her when she wants to talk. In a time like this, she needs a good friend more than ever. She may seem reclusive and try to push you away, but don't get discouraged. And remember, talk to an adult you trust.
2006-11-04 23:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your fren to a counseller and take advice. Counsellers' always ask for both the parties to be present so ur fren has to take her parents fi she wants to go to see a counseller. If she cant do it then i think the best recourse is to talk over the problem at dinner time in the diner table. Take care of ur fren otherwise seh will become very very introvert infuture if she continues onlike this and may also have an uncontrollable temper sometimes.
2006-11-04 23:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by HC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend suffers from a deep depression and the cuts are a way to say "help me "
her mother has been a what? you need to take her aside and ask what is happening there are a lot of services for teenagers who go through this speak to her teachers express how concerned you are this can all help but she and you needs to act now
2006-11-04 23:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by cormucus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she doesnt do it again.
ask her about it. ask her why. and how it is going to help anythign
tell her you dont want her to do it again because she is really important to you and dont want anythign to happen to her .
if she doesnt stop after you talk to her make sure you tell an adult so that she can get help and stop before it gets serious.
ooo and after you talk to her she might try to cover her cuts up so you dont notcie look out for cutting on her hip or another place no one would think to look.
good luck.
i hope everything works out.
2006-11-04 23:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 of my friends cut...and....let me just say...its a form of relief..its kind of satisfying..but she needs 2 stop....u dont really need 2 tell an adult..just..make sure ur there 4 her....and be there for when she needs u..tell her instead of cutting..to call u and u'll help her thru
2006-11-04 23:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her about it
2006-11-04 23:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try talking to the mother, she's probably feeling guilty and has no idea whats your friend is up to
2006-11-04 23:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to ur friend and tell her u will do anything to can to help her
2006-11-05 14:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Leigh<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her why she did it? that was stupid for her to cut herself, just because of her mom.
2006-11-04 23:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Becky W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋