i was just thinking about how all of my friends have boyfriends and i am to shy to ask any boy out. i am not a shy person but i feel like i will embarrass myself and that they boy should ask me out! Not many boys in are school do that though. They are all (in my grade anyway) nice or at least the ones i like are and would probably feel to nervous to ask someone out! Can you cheer me up?
2006-11-04 15:44:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
One day in the future you will be asked by someone and it will make you wonder why you didn't ask that person before now. You have a lot of life ahead of you. The only person who will remember your embarrassing time will be you years from now. Start by talking with them and see how it goes from there. Make friends. I'm a shy person too. But if you give yourself a chance you might surprise yourself.
2006-11-04 15:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to be too serious, but my baby died this past year. i realized then NOTHING was important enuf to hurt me or bring me down compared to that, it's all in the importance, and that honey isn't as important as it seems or feels, i would do ANYTHING and go through ANYTHING humility pain, anything to make it to where i never had to go through this, and that he never had to die.............i understand, but one day u may end up in a emotional state lke tat wishing u hadn't cared about unimportant things
but to answer ur ? U can do better, thy r settling...or just like a variety, depends on the type pf gals they r, but u will be worth so much to a GREAT guy, and trust me when i say , it will make u glad u didn't waiste ur time with so much other heartache, and it def helps u to be strong, not needy of any men...u know =) cheer up, if i can, u can
2006-11-04 23:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy life!! Your guy will ask you out in good time. Try to laugh more when you have company, so people will like you better. Try to have an easy carefree attitude.. you never know, a guy might actually be falling in love with your smile/!! Cheer up!
2006-11-04 23:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
havin a bf is really a great responsibility...who noes, u might have a lot of secret admirers and u wont noe untill the right time comes....once upon a time, i thought i was not good-looking and that i won't get a bf. but hey, wen i reached 13 i found that i had a lot of admirers...blah,blah.u need 2 have tons of confidence in yourself.....stay cool& smile.... : ) P.S wait 4 a guy 2 approach u.
2006-11-05 01:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try inviting a couple of your friends over to watch some movies. Tell them to bring their boyfriends. If there is a certain boy you like tell him you are having a few friends over and he is invited. That use to work for me. Good luck.
2006-11-04 23:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, I'm in the exact same position. I've had boy troubles all year and yea, most of my friends have bf's too. Annoying huh? Really makes you want one. So yea, trust me, you'll find a guy, it just takes time.
2006-11-04 23:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a guy... I mean comon ! most of them are dirty and stinky anyway! Don't worry about it when the time is right a nice guy will ask you out or you will feel confident enough to ask him out! good luck! and whatever you do don't date anyone from the internet!
2006-11-05 00:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask a boy out. If he really wants you and is a MAN then he will approach you. HOWEVER, you can make a move and tell him that you guys should hang out sometime but don't ask him out.
That's just my opinion though.
2006-11-04 23:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by meg (on Violet Hill) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,time will come that boys will come to you and ask you to go out.
2006-11-05 00:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you phrased your question you sound like a very intelligent and compassionant person. When the time is right...you will know it....hang in there
2006-11-04 23:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋