2006-11-04 15:04:53 · 14 answers · asked by smith b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well I just moved and i started going through puberty and being gay never crossed my mind and i like girls but now when i moved im confused
2006-11-04 15:10:43 · update #1
Well i guess it crossed my mind from a t.v. and stuff and i guess confussed on what makes you gay for example if you think another guy is handsom does that means you are gay?
2006-11-04 15:15:58 · update #2
You will go through puberty if you are gay or not.
2006-11-04 15:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Going through puberty is confusing just by itself. But throw in sex into the mix and it can really get confusing. And no it doesn't mean you're gay if you think another guy is handsome. A lot of guys will say stuff like he's handsome, or good looking or whatever. That doesn't mean someone is gay. What I would suggest you do is enjoy puberty! It's an exciting time in your life, filled with wonderous changes. Explore all those new feelings and emotions that you have. Be open minded to all possibilites. As you pass through puberty your feelings for straight or gay sex will become more clear, and you will eventually know which lifestyle you feel most comfortable with. The bottom line is this, be who you are! Not someone who someone else wants you to be.
2006-11-04 23:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by MAC4Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty is a really confusing time, with hormones flying all over the place, bodily changes happening things can get a little confusing. Whether you are gay or not, you will discover for yourself eventually as you grow older. Don't be in a rush to label yourself in anyway yet until you have a clear understanding of who you really are as a person. And whatever happens don't let anyone victimize you because of who you are. Sorry I know this isn't a definite answer, but increasingly in life such things elude us.
2006-11-04 23:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by chris_morganuk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen Pee Wee at your age sex was the last thing on my mind. I had a 3 inch hard on so I don't think even I f I knew about sex I would have been able to actually do anything.
That aside play sports, computers anything. Sex is not for 13/14/15 year olds. And some 16/17 year olds are immature aswell so ask your question in 4/5 years.
2006-11-04 23:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, relax! You have years to figure out your orientation. Some people don't for decades after puberty! It's not that important right now to have a firm answer. Questioning is perfectly normal. Jumping to conclusions is unwise. Observe your surroundings and yourself. Read some young adult books on the subject. You are more -- much more -- than your orientation. Be yourself, have fun. And especially: take your time.
2006-11-04 23:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by lucy_ritter 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No --thinking a guy is handsome doesn't make you gay...any more than seeing a pretty flower makes you want to pollinate it...trust me...I don't think you're gay.
2006-11-04 23:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going through puberty, it natural to be confused. don't rush it. you have lots of time to decide who you are. you'll know when the time comes.
2006-11-04 23:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by nerdophile_k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, being confused/questioning your gender and/or sexuality is normal. We'd need more details to really be able to help you.
2006-11-04 23:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u r probably straight but curious. if you catch yourself falling in love or lust for guys... then it'd be a good idea to give it some serious thought. otherwise, appreciate all the diversity there is in the world and enjoy your life.
2006-11-04 23:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alex62 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes if you think a guy is handsome your are gay are bisexual.look me up i live in darby montana and i am in job corps
2006-11-04 23:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by mathew r 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋