I am a 15 year old and I go to an urban school! It's a bad school. Everyone has sex, including me! But that is the problem...I think I'm a sex-addict! I have sex atleast 2x a day. More on weekends. Any advice to help me? I don't want to stop completely... just slow down!
2006-11-04 14:30:18 · 13 answers · asked by Secret P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Personally, I would not consider you a sex addict (actually, I'm not sure I have *ever* considered someone to be a sex addict--and I'm a grad student with a focus on Gender Studies and Human Sexuality). Others may disagree, particularly depending on your gender.
To try to cut down on sex, start a hobby. The type of hobby would depend on your specific tastes. You could consider reading, playing video games, gardening, and bicycling, as well as playing social games such as board games, collectible card games (like Magic: The Gathering), sports, Dungeons & Dragons, and poker (but not strip poker!). There are many others, of course.
Since you are trying to cut down on sex and not abstaining altogether, remember always to use protection. Protection is the key to a healthy sex life.
2006-11-04 14:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, if, in an urban school, like the ones in the bad/ghetto area, sex will happen.
Since you have no way of identifing your gender here, I'll assume you're a girl.
If anyone tries to grab the magnetic (attractive, like the butt or something similar) parts of your body, punch them or say no.
Having sex that many times (about 18 times/week) is kinda bad. Think of protection?
Sometimes guys in their teens just want to do it, but with no condom.
Heck, when I have my first, I'll grab a condom.
Anyway, tell somebody and stop this. IM me (ska_dj45) for more information.
And if you need a hobby, don't try DDR if you got the nice cans, because they will bounce on long streams, even jump streams, because more guys will come.
May I suggest a book?
2006-11-05 00:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by ZZ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are too young to be having the type of sex life you are. You are risking entirely too much. Your school is not at fault, its you and your friends. You need help and the school counselor is NOT the place to go unless you are at a dead end. Go to planned parenthood.
2006-11-04 15:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by fancyname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to find a hobby..not SEX you are 15 and have your whole life of you.
2006-11-04 15:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Skip school!
Just kidding--there is no such thing as being a sex addict--I know some people claim there is but I don't buy it. If you don't want to have sex don't unbotton your jeans.
2006-11-04 14:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show more interest towards ur studies,
dream about ur succeesful carriers,
try to overcome the barriers which comes in ur path.
May god bless u.
2006-11-05 02:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by ssshhh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know where you are coming from...ask yourself can u be okay if u didnt have sex...and sweety at 15 sex is not what it seems...tell those guys no...they r just letting their hormones take over just as you are try birth control if u think u can't...and use condoms also...but just say NO
2006-11-04 14:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by PrInCeSs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well not be a smart *** but we cant come hold your hand and tell you no...only you can say no to these guys..think about getting pregnant every time you are getting ready to throw down..it can happen..and only takes 1 time. BE careful
2006-11-04 14:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, you are heading for a very very troubled and painful life if you don't chage it now. Go here. Maybe it will help. http://www.sa.org/test.php
2006-11-04 14:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
talk to somebody and get help you are to young to worry about sex
2006-11-04 14:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋