Does that mean that he cant make up his mind about you and another girl? I was fine until he comes in my life every so often. Guys I need your help on this one. My ex still asks strange around me but we were best friends once before.
2006-11-04 14:07:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him alone please. He is using you.
2006-11-04 14:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all guys that do that is because they want to know if you have moved on. They may not wont to be with you but they dont want anyone to have you. Sometimes it could be just for the sex. This is a little tricky because theres not alot of information about what happened to the two of you. The way it seems is that you must of liked him alot and I am guessing he broke up with you? The way it seems is that when you guys broke up he may have went on a couple of dates and they must of not worked out. He could be missing you and see' s that he may have made a mistake. You say he was your best friend so its hard to date a friend and then break up with them. Alot of times you want to go back to the way it was as best friends but its to complicated. As far as a hold on you maybe he thinks he does because you were friends first. The two of you have to be honest with each other. You said you were fine until he calls. That only means that you are not over him yet or maybe you dont want to get over him. If you were in another relationship and really liked the person your x wouldnt make you confused, because you would know were you stand. My advise with as little as I know is to be adults and talk to eachother. Ask why he keeps calling. Be honest! It could be that your friendship is really not over. Tell him you would like to be his friend but it is going to take a while because you had history. If you can not just be his friend tell him that. You know yourself better then anyone. Do what your brain tells you to do. Not your heart because we can be blinded by love. Take care and be brave
2006-11-04 14:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by beans03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a big boot out the door. What he is trying to do is manipulate you. He is hoping to confuse you, and it sounds like it might be working. In his mind, he is thinking that if things don't work out between him and this other girl, he can fall back on you. In reality he is being unfaithful to the other girl, and treating you with disrespect. He would do the same thing to you if she was not in the picture, and possibly already has done this to you. He is not a very nice guy. Just tell him that it is over and that all contact needs to be severed.
2006-11-04 14:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only hold he has is the one you give him, you are not together for a reason, think about that and go from there, luck to you
2006-11-04 14:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋