How to handle it if my ex turns up at my house???
how do i handle it if my ex comes to my house?? i love him alot and want to be with him but everytime he turns up i tell him i love him and im pushing him away by doing this. how can i get him back?? i have told him if he wants it over to not contact me so i can get over him and he still contacts me
2006-11-04 13:57:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My heart goes out to You. You seem so confused about what to do. So many repeated questions. You can not let Him keep doing this. You have to be brave and KNOW that You deserve better than this. It is keeping You so upset. We teach People how to treat us. As long as You keep allowing this Person to do this, He will. Love isn't always enough. Take the time to write down the good points of this relationship, and the bad. Number them. I believe You will find Your true answer there. God Bless You. Surround Yourself with true Friends. Talk to God about this situation, He can give You the answer You need, and hopefully will listen to, completely. You have to move on, and let Him know that You have. It isn't going to get any better, this has been going on for too long. I think You keep asking, hoping to get an answer that He loves You, and You will both live happily ever after, but that is not going to happen. If it were, it would have already.
Please don't waste another minute of Your precious life on this.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION: just me, You have asked 70 questions, 70. They are all about this Man. You admitted that He has cheated on You. He is cheating now, He just doesn't want You to be with another Man. For the Love of all that is Good in this World. MOVE ON. Seriously, please You are to the point of needing some serious counseling. I can't believe that no one ever realized that You have asked the same thing SEVENTY times. HE IS DANGEROUS. HE HAS MOVED ON. FORGET HIM NOW. HE IS STALKING YOU. YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE WITH THIS PERSON. MOVE IF YOU HAVE TO. Just get away from this TOXIC relationship. Take all of this time and go to College. Better Your Life, He is eight years older than You. He has messed with Your Head so badly You are completly consumed by this mess. Please, Please, Please, Move on........
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Do You Get It Now. SEVENTY Quesions. About the same Person, and You are still not sure. Move on...............................
2006-11-04 17:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you on his schedule, and isn't really there for you. If you have conditions for getting back together (like doing things on certain nights, no cheating, whatever), when he shows up ask him if he's ready to agree to those conditions. If the answer is no, tell him not to contact you until and unless he is. When it happens again, do the same thing, and ask him if he has trouble comprehending simple instructions. If he says no, he understands, then say good, because I don't expect to hear from you again unless we're in agreement. When he does it AGAIN, tell him you couldn't possibly love someone so stupid and/or manipulative, and to never contact you again or you will go to the police and accuse him of stalking. If he does it again, go to the police and accuse him of stalking.
If you're not out of love with him by this time, get therapy immediately.
Good luck.
2006-11-04 14:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun hes just playin with your emotions. believe me i had one of those. the only way to get over him if he keeps backing off and telling you that you are pushing him away is to not see him. get out meet new people and live your life for you. stop worrying about what hes doing or if he's gonna come back. he sounds like a total loser let him go.. find a guy that will appriciate you.
2006-11-04 14:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by CountryGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by furney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,,, sounds like you need to find you a man,, and leave the boys alone!!!!
Good luck
2006-11-04 14:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want it to be over so he can use you when he wants to.
Tell him not to come back and be firm about it.
2006-11-04 14:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him way are you pussing him anway from i did you do you i would him if you dont him you you call 911 tell him he is borther you thats i would do
2006-11-04 14:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by DIANE E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno srry
2006-11-04 14:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by justlilme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋