Depends on how willing to cooperate each party is. Sometimes the dad will say "Oh you keep the house b/c you have the kids more often" she also gets the mortgage payment then too. If a mutual aggreement can not be made or a 50/50 split is not agreed upon then a mediator can be called in to decide for the couple who is better off with what and why. Then anything that can not be divided is sold and the profits spit 50/50.
2006-11-04 13:52:14
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answered by sixcannonballs 5
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First a divorce takes time to happen. So, when you say," right now...a divorce is about to happen." I'll assume you've both decided to proceed with a divorce. When I say it takes time..it does ! Legal papers have to be filed, a court date set, etc....Suburban family or not, much of how assets are divided depends on what state you live in . Also, depending on total family income, years married, if children are involved. The lawyers / court will review and makes decisions as to spousal support, child support...etc---If you haven't contacted an attorney you should do so to protect your interests. Normally a phone consult will be free, and in some cases an initial office visit will also be free, You can find this out by simply calling an attorney and asking. Many attorneys will take a case on after a written contract is signed saying you will pay a certain amount to the attorney for him or her to represent you and usually payment plans can be made between the client and the attorney. It sounds like it's time for you to start your homework...ask for references...look in your local phone book and start making calls come Monday. Keep a notebook of calls--- stay organized. The process of a divorce can be physically & emotionally draining. Best wishes..
2006-11-04 14:01:29
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answered by Brains & Beauty 6
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Well this is going to hurt.This is not ment to be a chovinist but the woman is going to get most anything she wants. She will get half of all assets and half of any 401K plans,possible she may get alomony if she does't work and may get some if she does.She will most likely get custody of the kids if you have any and child support based on your income.If she doesn't work she will get the house unless you owned it before marriage.All this is not to scare you but to give you a little insight to what may happen.I know all this because I lived through it.Hope things go better for you.Good luck.
One other thought,If the two of you are still socialble maybe you can sit down and come to some type of agreement before things get ugly.This would be the best thing to do if possible.It would be easier to swallow your pride and eat a little S--t now than have to eat noodles and soup later.
2006-11-04 14:03:08
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answered by Anonymous
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The couple getting a divorce will split the assets right down the middle. If she gets custody of the kids she'll get Child support too.If neither wants the house they should sell and whats left, they will split that as well. As far as the bills, if shes not working, she can have her lawyer put in the Divorce Decree that he pays them. Alot depends on the situation and what state they live in and go accordind to their divorce laws.
2006-11-04 13:53:38
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answered by smplylori32 2
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Half of everything. This includes debt, assets, your retirement, house and property. If there are children involved and she gets them she will get child support, lots of it. If she does not work she will get alimony. Alimony is in addition of half of everything you currently own, she will get half of everyting you make in the future. Until she remarries. Alimony is only common if she does not work and did not hold a stable job during your marriage. Get a lawyer, get a good lawyer. Spend a lot of money and get a good lawyer. You will regret not getting a good lawyer.
2006-11-04 13:52:50
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answered by Anonymous
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She will get AT LEAST half of everything. If you are working and she isn't, she is most likely eligible for spousal support and if you have children, she will most likely get half if not full custody (yeah, it's sad, but the law favors the mother in most cases) which means you will be paying child support as well.
2006-11-04 13:49:00
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answered by missapparition 4
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With merely some months marriage I doubt you will lose lots in any respect. in case you probably did no longer positioned the homestead in her call and he or she did no longer make contributions to the homestead then i do no longer think of you have a topic. in case you were married a protracted time, it would be a different tale. Make that argument that it grew to become into merely some months and that she will nonetheless paintings. optimistically she did no longer end paintings or if she did, it grew to become into against your desires. in case you have been married lots longer, i could be on her side, yet in this subject i'm on your side and think of the choose would be too. in case you have been untrue and the marriage fee her, then you definately would ought to pay a number of that costs. if she is at fault which would be missed. good success and desire this grew to become into no longer your fault..
2016-12-28 13:01:44
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answered by putz 3
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Depends on the state you live in. Most often, she gets half of all joint assets, and half of all joint debts. She gets 100% of her property she came into marriage with, and 100% of all debts in her name. She usually gets the kids too.
2006-11-04 13:49:39
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answered by shojo 6
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You don't say where you live. In MA, where I am, more.
If there are kids, way more. In CA, a nofault divorce state, 50%. Check here:
http://www.nolo.com
2006-11-04 13:49:46
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answered by Anonymous
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50 percent of all assets accumulated after the marriage, she also gets half the debt
2006-11-04 13:48:49
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answered by gYPSY B 3
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