It's going to be my wife's birthday and I don't know what to get her
the thing is that I don't have money .
she sayd that she doesn't want anything , But I know that she knows that I'm gonna give her something I wanna give her something nice but I only have 100 dollars available the rest of my money it's to pay rent and bills. any advice ?is there something nice for a nie wife for one hundred dollars?
2006-11-04 13:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Recipe for inexpensive but memorable Birthday Gift
Need
10 Tea Candles
1 Bottle of Pretty Smelling Bubble Bath (No Bubble Gum fragrance.
1 Dozen of Roses from Wal-Mart
1 Loving and Heartfelt Birthday Card
Start the day off with Breakfast in Bed
Throughout the day,do as many household chores as you can.
Fix Supper. . .and it doesn't have to be a romantic meal (just getting her out of the kitchen is a jewel)and don't forget the clean up.
After dinner,sit and watch TV or a rented movie.
While she is watching the TV or rented movie,excuse yourself to go to the Bathroom (tell her you are going to take a quick shower)where you will start a Warm Bubble Bath.
Start the tea candles in safe places throughout the bathroom and avoid placing them on the Bath tub.
Put your roses laying on the Bathroom Counter and perhaps one across the handles of the tub faucets.
Return to where your wife is watching TV or rented movie and sit with her and start rubbing her feet.
Little bit by little bit,start to undress her and continue until she is completely undressed and then begin to lead her to her awaiting Bubble Bath.
Leave her alone to sit and enjoy the Candle Lit Bubble Bath,when she is done she may or may not want to have sex but you could just go to bed and hold her and tell her how greatful you are for having her in your life.
MOST IMPORTANTLY.........mention nothing about your lack of funds to give her more. . . to do so takes the moment off of her and burdens her with financial worries.
GOOD LUCK
P.S. Don't tell her where you got this idea,let her think it was YOUR idea.
2006-11-04 14:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Just Q 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband gave me a coin that was made the year i was born. Sorry but it does matter what you give, because i felt he could have at least made a card or said something meaningful but he gave me a coin. That may sound like I'm not grateful, but really it is what you make her feel like on her birthday and every other day of the year, not what you buy. something like, flowers from a hill where wild flowers grow, with a picnic lunch on a blanket just the two of you. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much she means to you, spend quality time together, listen when she expresses her feelings, and be attentive to her needs and desires. show her that no other woman could distract your attention from her. I would have loved to have had my husband do this for me. Just an opinion from a broken hearted wife.
2006-11-04 18:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not surprise her with dinner that you've cooked, then follow it up with running her a bubble bath light some candles and let her relax, after her bath give her a back massage. Like most women she'd just like to give something from the heart, as long as it come from your heart she'll love it. If you can't cook then just let her have some money and let her go out for the day with her girlfriends, I did that this past bday, i met my best friend for lunch and then we went to the mall then met other friends for dinner the day was a blast!
2006-11-04 13:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time and undying love...and it's free. Women need romance, so take her out for a night she'll never forget. Spend the money wining and dining her. Material things never make up for emotional wants. It'll last longer and be more meaningful.
However, by her saying she doesn't want anything means that she wants you to surprise her. If you've been paying attention, you should already know what she wants....chances are she's been dropping hints since her last b-day.
2006-11-04 16:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by kellie69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband did something that stands out to me over anything else he has ever given me. (Including jewelry and other material gifts - I hardly remember those!) One day I came home from work, tired and frustrated and found a note on the door telling me to knock. I did so. My husband opens the door and he is wearing a suit and tie. I look past him and see the table set for two with two candles burning and all lights off in the house. He takes my coat off, takes my hand, and leads me to the table, pulling the chair out and pushing it back in once I sit down. He made a spectacular dinner for me! Later he cleaned it up. I will never forget that simple but absolutely wonderful and meaningful day! I wouldn't trade that memory for anything! :)
2006-11-04 14:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Annie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one's easy! He's what I did when I had the same prob.
Make a card out like a gift certificate. On it put breakfast in bed or a day off from chores or something you know she doesn't like to do that you can do for her. My wife flipped out cause I "put so much thought into it!" If she likes jewerly get her some earings.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 13:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by bills47374 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think really hard she may have said something that may come back to you. One of the best gifts I received was him bringing me to a park with a picnic. Special and out of the ordinary. Gifts need to be from the heart not expensive. I know you can come up with a special gift that she will love.
2006-11-04 13:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife loves you she will be happy with what ever you get her. I gave my wife something very precious to me, it was a rare silver coin that was minted on the year of her birth. my dead dad left it to me.... like you I had no money at the time...She never even said thanks. it mean a lot to me, but obviously nothing th her. I loved her so much. but it is apparent that she never loved me. so to answer your question. if she loves you it matters not what you give her she will be happy...
2006-11-04 13:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
attention! help hey with all the stuf around the house talk to her even tell her something about you that she never knew to let her know that you are still interested in her.
2006-11-04 13:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by wantingtoplease 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes alittle time with you and for you to remember why you fell in love with her.
quiet dinner just for two
flowers
bath gifts
the main thing is to make sure she knows you love her and you'll always be there
2006-11-04 13:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by cbr_honda_girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋