2006-11-04 13:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by wantingtoplease 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a wife and I think I understand what's going on with your wife. I love my husband and sometimes b/c we have kids, when we're on the phone, that's the only time I can give my undivided attention and talk dirty or tell him how I feel about him. However, sometimes, when he's around, I'm so busy with household chores, my job, kids, etc, I'm just not interested in anything.
You know what really helps??? If he helps with me with household chores, like the dishes and we do them together, then it makes me feel he loves me, we get to talk, and then I want to "reward" him afterwards or if he does something nice like the laundry, etc. Or just rubs my feet and listen to me talk about my day for 30 mins. It makes me feel like he doesn't just want to do it, that he is really listening to me and wants to know how I feel.
So, when you're around, make sure she knows it, that you love her, be gentle, listen to her, make her feel loved and appreciated and you'll get more of it!
2006-11-04 13:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Falina T. Rayon 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know that feeling! She is either not turned on by you anymore or holding something against you. How long have you been married? Try buying some different clothes and dressing up daily.Act not like yourself a little more Then try not to pay as much attention to her go out and do things by yourself. Act a little mysterious and happier.This will make her curious. Make her come back to you without begging.
2006-11-04 13:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_Brightside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's very sexual whith whom when you're gone? If it's you (like over the phone or internet) maybe she just needs you to spice things up at home. If it's with other people, you need a good divorce attorney.
2006-11-04 13:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by shojo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's afraid of actually "doing the deed". It's easy to be sexual when you know that you won't have to perform. Are you asking her to do things in bed that might make her uncomfortable?
2006-11-04 13:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-04 13:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced a similar phenomenon. I can't explain it though. Absence makes the heart grow fonder...?
How do you know that she's very sexual when you're gone?
2006-11-04 13:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by smiling_nonstop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you both need to pretend that your not there because it sounds like she is very shy to talk about sex with you but she is a very sexual personal in general, like she is embarassed to express herself to you ,thinking you will think less of her pretend your having phone sex and see if that works
2006-11-04 13:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a closet agressive. Who would you say is more likely to initiate sex? Maybe it's time for a change. If it's you, try to let her take charge. Withhold sex until she's willing to start things up. If that doesn't work then you should go caveman on her a** and just come home and lay it down.
2006-11-04 13:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is a shy women.....not open about her needs...it will be best if you are dominant and aggressive with her...
Some woman( I think most) like dominant and aggressive partners( mind it !only in physical relation not in other aspects of life)
try that and see the results..
2006-11-04 18:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by 28March2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop teasing you! and then rip her thong off and make her have sex with u
2006-11-04 13:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋