need help pregnat at 13?

Question

i am pregnat and only 13 i love this boy and he loves me. my parents are very helpful, but i coud use some more help right now

Answer 1

thats a tough situation. keep your head up and continue accepting the support from your family. i wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

Hmm tough situation. Okay first of all, if you think you're ready to have sex, you should at least know how to spell. It's PREGNANT. Anyway, I don't think you or your boyfriend knows what love truly is. You're too young. You're most likely confusing love with lust or infatuation, obsession, etc. When I was 13 (which wasn't that long ago), I thought I knew what love was, but I really didn't. I still don't. In fact I'm even more confused about it now than ever.
Well, I hope you aren't planning to get an abortion. It's also very good to know that your parents are helpful. Be very appreciative-my parents would've kicked me out. Best thing to do is have the child, let your parents help you take care of it, but make sure you play an active role in your child's life. And make sure you stay in school. School is extremely important, especially if you want to be able to care for your child by yourself in the future. Do as well as you can and definetly go to college, so you can support your family. And you and your boyfriend need to talk. I'm assuming he knows you're pregnant, but you should talk to him and his family too and see how they're going to help you. Because they're a part of this too.
Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Must report to the police evven though u love this boy.Yr parents maybe supportive but u r too young to hv a baby at yr age.Pls get a good education.U claimed u love the boy.pls ask yrself honestly, do u really understand what love is ?? Its going to be a tough /long road if u really wants to keep the baby.Can the boy really know how big the responsibilities are.U r at sec one.U need a good counseller.the boy is not ready to be a father even if he's older than u by a couple of yrs.He had actually committed a very serious offence by having sex with a minor(underage).He will probably be charged and sent to boys' home.I urged u to lodge a report fast b/f it's too late....good luck

Answer 4

Well, there is no way that you are prepared to raise a child at your age, you're barely a teenager. With that said, you are going to need ALOT of help and a great support system (namely your parents) so that you are able to continue with your education and so that you can be taught to raise a child. I know you probably love the idea of having a baby, but you're still a baby yourself, and it's HARD work for women three times your age to raise a child. Good luck.

Answer 5

how bout this boy's parents?
Are they ready to accept you?

if so, wat is your worry.....you will have a loving family...

Now your next step is to study real hard so that you are able to find a better job with better pay. Don't waste you parents effort.

You and your hubby must let your family (baby) live a more comfortable live.... now that you are going to be a mama soon. you should learn to think like an adult and act like one.

Heh, look on the bright side, you got a head start.... some ppl still don treat their lives seriously.

The fact that you ask for help here shows that you want the baby, that you are think about the future, you want to go forward to bare the responsibilities.... its good that your parents are willing to help.... so don let them down...

Congrats and good luck....

Answer 6

At 13, you honestly don't know what love really is. You know what infatuation and lust are though. I applaud you for not having an abortion. Your best bet is to let your parents raise the child, if they're willing, or put the baby up for adoption. As much as possible, stay in school. You will NEED your education, especially if you choose to raise this child yourself.

Answer 7

Number 1, stay in school. Home studies,whatever,dont give that up.You may not see it right now but you will need an education in your future in case your "love" doesnt work out. It is one thing for you to stand up and be responsible, you are the pregnant one ,you have no choice but to grow up {fast} but when the pressure of growing up to fast falls on him and he gets a dose of reality he may choose to stay a kid a while longer. I wish you luck and I think its great for your parents to be helping you.

Answer 8

YOU need a very good support group of family and friends right now. What you don't need is criticism or punishment. Make very certain that you only associate with supportive people to get you through this for the next few years. Don't tolerate anyone making fun of you or criticism. Please promise yourself to go with your mom to your doctor and ask him to provide the name of a professional counselor. You need good advice and supportive family and friends ONLY. Take care.. Best Wishes.

Answer 9

If you feel old enough to have sex then you should be able to spell PREGNANT not pregnat - but PREGNANT.

Your parents are you best advocates now--listen to their advice.

Answer 10

Well first off-what you think is love-isn't. You are much to young to know what love is and so is he. As long as your parents are helping you-I see nothing else that can be done. Good luck.