i am the only child but i have a big cuban family everyone is married and has kids even my cousin Leeh and she is 17 my family thinks i am a big embarresment to my family and call me names like jelly roll el fatso and asked me why i dont go to the gym all of the women in my family are small little stick with small busts and butts and weigh 80-120 pounds i who is big thighs big stomack and big butt i only weigh 167 pound is that bad i am going away with my boyfriend and they are telling me i am running away somtimes i just want to cry but thank god for noah i love him more than my family he treats me like a princess i think we should do it we watied what should i do with my family and my boyfriend?
2006-11-04 13:08:17 · 10 answers · asked by melody p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore them, if you ask me your the normal one! If anything make sure that you are Healthy b/c your health is very important, but don't live up to what they think how you should look, if you are comfortable in your skin then that is all that matters.
2006-11-04 13:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you and I need to switch families. My parents pick on me cuz I'm small! They have no right to treat you that way. If you and your baby have a plan then what's stoppin you? If your under 18 though I'd wait and graduate first so I can get a decent job. You are kinda running away but not in the cowardly way your fam is making it sound. No one should be subjected to that kind of cruelty. Follow your heart.
2006-11-04 13:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Muffin Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet, your family members are trying to help you. They are just going about it the wrong way. I am an Hispanic and I understand how crude and direct family members can be.
I know you are pretty, but are unwilling to take care of your health. You have an issue and a mission to complete. If you want an um happy life maintain your present course. Can you imagine how many you would blow away if you find the courage, discipline and strength to lose the extra weight. Brother, I would be the first to rival your boyfriend. I would be yours and definitely take you to meet my MOTHER (-:
2006-11-04 13:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your family being that way towards you. You sound like you are a few pounds of what is standard for your hight but not by that much. If you think you should go for it with your boy, go for it. And if you want to stop your family from saying things like that...well, I can only think of one way.
2006-11-04 13:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Abyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. hat was sorta hard to understand but. With your family, I would ignore them. That's just what familys do, judge each other. About your boyfriend, as long as you are happy then ignore what they say and do whatever whenever you think it's right. Best Wishes!
-Alexis
2006-11-04 13:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Yellow :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't listen to your family if you think that you look all right and if your boyfriend like you the way you are you don't need to change.
2006-11-04 13:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by HOT- LATINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the guy if you love him,and move on.
2006-11-04 13:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't care what people think and your cousin just has a bad self esteam
2006-11-04 13:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your family and don't go too far with your boyfriend too soon
2006-11-04 13:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and tell them how hurtful their comments are.....
2006-11-04 13:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋