my friends hete my bf and thay are the 1s who sed to go out with him because i like him and he liks me and so we are going out and thay hete him ???
2006-11-04 13:01:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friends that you're a bit confused about why they hate him so much. Ask them why they wanted you to date him so bad if they are just going to hate him. I'm guessing they won't be able to give you a very good answer. It also could be a jealousy issue.
2006-11-04 13:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sounds like your friends wanted you to be happy but they didn't know what the guy was like beforehand or didn't realize just how much of your time would be taken away from them...I've been in their predicament before. I've encouraged my friends to date people before and as they were getting to know the other person, so was I and sometimes I would realize that I didn't think that the guy was good enough for them or that he was too controlling..etc. other times I would get jealous of all the time they were spending with their new bf/gf and forgetting about me...even if they didn't realize they were ignoring me. The best advice that I can give you is to be patient with your friends and to make a particular effort to make sure that they know that they are important to you. if this means not going on a date with your bf one night, do it! your bf needs to understand that your life is not just about him, you also have friends that need you too. and you need them (who's gonna be there to help you when your having arguments with your bf? =) however if your friends are telling you that, for a fact, this guy is bad news for you...well, you've been their friends longer than he's been your bf. you might have your feelings way too wrapped up in this guy and your friends are doing wht they're supposed to...warning you!
2006-11-04 14:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooooh, can I relate!! If you like him, continue dating him. If not, let him go. Make your own decisions. When you're at home lonely, no one to hang out with, you'd be kicking yourself for dumping someone your friends pressured you to dump. Don't allow your friends to make that determination for you. Use your own judgement.
I met a guy once and within 1 week I knew he'd never be more than a good-looking acquaintance. A friend told me to give him more time, that he was shy, wasn't used to a younger woman (he's 54), etc. Two one-half months later she tells me to let him go. After 2½ months, I'd become emotionally involved and somewhat interested in him (mistake). I just wish I'd listened to my own inner voice.
2006-11-04 13:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know how you feel because im in a relationship right now where a lot of my friends dont really like them, but they also want me to be happy. i asked them what they thought bout me going out with this guy and there like go for it if you really like him and that he will treat you right. so even though your friends hate your boyfriend, they just want to see you happy. what makes you happy makes them happy too!!
2006-11-04 13:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by [rawr] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did something to your friends. Perhaps you should have a talk with your friends and figure out how come they hate your boyfriend all of a sudden.
2006-11-04 13:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, uh... Exactly what are you asking? I guess that even though your friends don't like your b/f they still want you to be happy so they say just go out.
2006-11-04 13:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by The Popular Vote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they sholdnt hate him. if they are true friends, they would understand and respect your relationship. ive been in that same position. just try to ignore theyre rude comments, and talk to them about it. and be calm when talking to them, dont start yelling. just say that you dont understand why they hate him, and that they need to respect your relationship, and it sholdnt matter if THEY hate him, THEY'RE not going out with him, YOU are.. and YOU like him.. so that's all that matters
2006-11-04 13:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they don't like him but they want you to be happy, and if going out with him makes you happy then thats just a sacrifice they think they have to make
2006-11-04 13:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! that happened to me. like my bf is really ah-bnoxious and SUPER popular and rich. and one say he gave me a diamond necklace (real diamonds i swear!) and they got mad at me and were taunting me and saying "Hannah! y did u ever go out with trhat jack@$$!) and i just ignored them and everything. then i told them that they told me to! and then they were like "well u have a brain! use it!" so what I did, was i told them that they need to LISTEN to me, and that i really heart him! and they finally were like "ok fine! maybe we were just jealous!" so u should ask your friend why they hate ur bf. :)
2006-11-04 13:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends really care about you they woun't care about who you go out with and if they are true friends they would accept your best friend! be above peer presure just follow what your heart tells you to do!
2006-11-04 13:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Natalia E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋