me and my boyfriend noah knew each other since kindergarden and we started to date the beginning of college till now we are both 22 years old and our birthdays are onthe same day just in the morning. He is supposed to be going away tommorow upstate. We both are virgins and we went to take any std dieses tests and we were both tested negative should we do it.
2006-11-04 12:57:17 · 25 answers · asked by melody p 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
NO! I do not say this for any moral reason but because you are asking strangers if this is the right time to lose your virginity!!!!!!!!
This shows that you have uncertainties. Also the fact that you were both tested for STD's as virgins also demonstrates lack of knowledge and or understanding re. sexual health. My advice would be to go to a sexual health clinic in your town together when he gets back from upstate..........IF he comes back.
This question and answer site is fantastic....I just found it yesterday, however this type of question can only be answered correctly by the persons involved. I hope you talk it through thoroughly...the pros and the cons and trust your HEART to make the right decision....not a bunch of strangers. Good Luck.
2006-11-04 13:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Melody, the only person you need to ask this question is yourself. If you say yes, then you only need to ask Noah. It is you. It is Noah. It is you two. Only you two know for yourselves what to do. If either of you says 'no', respect it. You both will want your first experience to be special together, and either one of you will regret it if the other was not ready, or wanting to, etc. You've known each other for 17 years, and you are still both very close to each other, going upstate isn't out of each other's lives. You two do what is, and feels right for each of you personally first, and then what feels right to and for the both of you.
2006-11-04 21:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by jph_photographer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it really depends on how you feel about him. Will you see him again? If not it may hurt more not to see him after what you share. If so maybe this is something that was always more but u never tried to act on it. You should put some thought in it. But not to much because time is running out. As for myself I would share myself with him and remember it
2006-11-04 22:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnmean1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi baby this is Noah why are you spreading our business all over the net. You want to do it think about it. I do i hope i dont sound desprate. love you princess.xoxoxox
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2006-11-04 21:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Noah V 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a joke and cannot take it seriously. Honestly, it's a put-on. Who waits 17 years then panics cause one is moving. I'm sure they have been separated before and if they really care they will continue to visit. Get real and get a life.
2006-11-04 21:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by noone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your twenty two years old, sweetie you've known this guy for about what 17 years now? You love him right? You've known him for so long you know he would never hurt you right?
he respects you right? You have no diseases. you obviously want to.
I'm an expert on this stuff honey. I can help you find the answer to your question. This is in fact way more complex than you think.
You dont want to do it and then find out you were wrong.
Email me by clicking on my icon and then go to contact ngchelsea. I'm more than happy to help, babe!
2006-11-04 21:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sali 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that is a very personal matter between you two because you only have one first time and if your ready and willin to do take a chance if hes the one
2006-11-04 21:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by badgurl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You love him right? Some people would say to wait till marriage but, look at what it did for Jessica Simpson. As long as you have true feelings for him then I dont see a problem. If you dont you will regret it. Do something special though. You know candles and rose petals and bubble baths. I hope its great!!!
2006-11-04 21:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are both virgins, then there was no need for you to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases. If you both feel that you're ready and that it's the right thing to do, then you should do it.
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2006-11-04 21:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you can decide that you have to both decide if you are ready emotionally for that kind of commitment in your relationship. Only the two of you can decide if you are ready for it. Marriage does not make someone ready for sex unlike what some people think. But honestly, I would totally do it.
2006-11-04 21:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Abyss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋