I'm just wondering if your'e a gay virgin...about after how many dates/meetigns should you and your boyfriend (with him being the sexperienced one) have anal intercourse? I don't want to come on too fast and want to make sure we're in this for a long term relationship.
2006-11-04 12:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by RaimundoL 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no magic number of dates, it will happen when you want it to happen without feeling as if you are being pressured into it.
2006-11-04 13:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my two cents is the same for gay couples as for straights . . . wait a while. A long while. If you just want to have casual sex, hey, go for it right this minute. Leave the computer! Go! But even then, I'd caution against casual sex unless you know full well what you're getting yourself into. But if you want a long-term relationship, a magic "date number" as a threshold is a bad way to go. Make sure you really love him, and he you (and not just to get in your pants), before you decide to do it. Of course, don't leave him high and dry- that's not fair if he's expecting it- just explain how it is and talk about it, discuss. That's always the best way!
Whatever you choose, good luck, and I hope the virginity loss, whenver it happens, is pleasant and sweet.
2006-11-04 15:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no longer something to point a boy is no longer a virgin (had sexual intercourse). some previous different halves memories have mentioned his testes and scrotum draw close decrease yet like a number of such myths, this is untrue. the only thank you to tell is; if he tells the reality, his better half tells the reality or he's caught interior the act.
2016-11-27 19:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by eckhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a expert or anything but wait a while until he starts to seem like hes getting intrested and then you know im not sure so dont take my advice seriously but its always wise to wait a while
2006-11-04 12:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by sean02744 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if your the virgin bcuz i really didn't understand were you the virgin or your partner , if your the virgin then don't come on hard let one situation lean to another trust your partner wont be upset
2006-11-04 15:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by CrEaTiVe_ThINkeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him, he wont get weird about it, if u ask and say u dont wanna seem like a player or anything he will understand
2006-11-04 13:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Justin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you both like it. no harm in trying it for 5 minutes see how it goes.
2006-11-04 12:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go watch this babe it may help you see the bigger picture...hugs.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=1QwIH9UmffA
2006-11-04 13:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know
2006-11-04 14:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats nasty.
2006-11-05 10:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋