shod i have sex with my bf? He rell wunts to and wunt to but not as much as him and he knows that i wunt to have sex but with the rite guy and he wunt to do it soon and i am 13 and he is 13 so shod we help!!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 12:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, u shodn't hav seks. @ 13 ? u no abot seks? Sems u hav ur mind mad up and r look 4 approvl to go ahed from sum adults. Kep ur legs close and sav it 4 a rel man...lik ur husbnd.
2006-11-04 12:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by pjnickles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not! You are way to young! I know what you're going through because I've had to make decisions like this before. I've never had intercourse before until my neighbor druged me with xanax about 2 and a half years ago and trust me even though I could barely function and every muscle in my body was relaxed it was the most unpleasant experience ever. After it was over I acted like it never happened and I met the wrong people. I started doing drugs because deep down inside that was my way of letting go. Eventually I let go alittle to much and I did some things that where really bad for my mental health and my physical health. I had a really low self esteem and I didn't really care about myself anymore. I've had to go through alot of counseling and therapy to get over the things I did and how much I hated myself for what had happened because of the rape and my actions!
So my suggestion is to stay away from sex and don't do or say anything that might make some body think you want it because really it's not meant for 13 year olds and honestly I don't think it's meant for anybody who isn't married. At 13 your brain isn't even developed enough to even grasp the intimacy that goes on in having sex. Another thing trust me a 13 year old little boy is not going to be able to give you ANY pleasure!!!!
It's a horrible idea and I suggest you just break up with him because he's obviosly not worthy of a girl like you who at least shows some concern about the issue and he doesn't even care about the harm it can have on your body or your emotions!!!
2006-11-04 14:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by lithgow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way ever at 13 should you be considering sex. Of course he wants to, he's a guy. You need to wait - at 13 you shouldn't even have a steady boyfriend.
It's like a tatoo in a way, it is a permanent decision that will affect you always - do you really feel you have the life experience at 13 to make an educated choice. No...and I'm contacting your mom!
2006-11-04 13:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. 13 is way too young for sex, please don't do it...are you ready to have your own baby? If not I suggest you wait. Also emotionally this is bad for you....I regret doing it at 15 & wish I would've waited, It's not all it's cracked up to be anyways! Also you should concentrate on being a kid (or young person) while you have the chance , bec when you get older you will wish u could go back to those carefree days. One last thing you should know how to spell the word "won't" before you consider sex.
2006-11-04 12:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not do it because you are only 13! kick back and enjoy your teen yrs when you get a LOT older you will find the right guy having sex now is very wrong and you should wait till u know you have the right guy and u can trust him and rely on him and enjoy spending time with him you are still young so I think you should wait but whatever you feel is right make your decision!
2006-11-04 12:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heather what the hell is f*cking wrong with u no u should not r u retarded dylan is a guy if hes asking for that then he doesnt love u we r young on dont make me kick ur a** iam ur friend and iam telling u if hes asing for u two to have sex he doesnt love u my mom told me this a long time ago he just wants it couse hes a guy
i wont tell anyone just DONT DO .IT..
2006-11-04 13:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend more time paying attention to school. You need to learn to spell better. 13 is too young for sex. If you pay attention to learning and bettering yourself, you will have a better life long term. Don't just live in the moment, think about your future.
2006-11-04 12:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by EB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
psh no my cousin is going through the same thing
her son and his gf had sex when they wer 14
and now she is pregnant
and not gonna give up the baby
i also heard about a ten year old near where i live.
got pregnant. ten.
i think that is way to young to hav sex srry
2006-11-04 12:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make that decision. If you want to have sex, first you should know about the consequences. For now, you should just worry about your education. If he wants to have sex at that age, i suggest you dump him and find another bf who cares.
2006-11-04 12:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by ?Jenny? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋