Feeling left out?

Question

I have two best friends. Over the summer, I was on vacation elsewhere and when I got back, I noticed that our friendship isn't like it used to be. They are leaving me out of some of their plans, and now one of them is on vacation and the other one doesnt wanna hang out because shes gone.. what do i do?

Answer 1

I know how you feel because i got left out a few times....
Well, i should suggest that you talk to them and ask them what's wrong and tell them how YOU FEEL!!!
EXPRESS YOURSELF!!!!

Answer 2

Go make new friends. There are plenty of people that need a friend. You will find in your life that come and go and closeness revolves around being there. They moved on because you weren't there, not because you did anything wrong. They got close to each other in your absence and there is nothing wrong with that either. Take your time if you want back in and keep trying, but don't be too dissapointed or put all your hopes on any one friend. What helps us thru life is having people to talk to, don't give up, just accept the things change all the time.

Answer 3

Ouch. That must feel strange. I am sorry. I would feel creepy in this situation. But don't despair. Friendships always change over time. You may be out growing them. They may be bonding and off in their own zone. If I were you, I would face the reality as an adult and start moving on emotionally. Open yourself up to new friends. New adventures. It was fun while it lasted, but it sounds like you need to gracefully get on with a new plan and some new people.

Answer 4

Find some new friends or groups to hang out with, variety is the spice of life.

Answer 5

Talk to the one that's leaving you out of her plans and tell her how you're feeling, how did it get this far, and what happened to you two.

Answer 6

I hate that. Dump them as friends.

You are better alone like i am :-)