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Whenever I am out and about, I feel so initimidated by all these older men who stare at me/check me out. Its so obvious, its funny. What is with these guys in their 30s and 40s and 50s staring at 17 year old girls?? Sometimes men stare at me who have kids younger than me. Do other girls have this feeling of intimidation when an old man stares at you?

2006-11-04 11:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by timcurrysfan 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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I hate to tell you this, but it happens all of the time. It will only happen more and more, so don't be surprised. Just learn to be smart and cautious.

There's a verse in the Bible that says "be wise as serpents and gentle as doves."

Guys of all ages check out girls. That's a given fact. Regardless of how old they are some are dangerous, and some are not. So the trick is learn to be cautious ("wise as serpents") but at the same time be nice and respectful ("gentle as doves").

Also keep in mind rapists can be older, but they can also be younger. They can also be clean, "good church guys." On the other hand, not every guy is a rapist. Just be careful and don't judge a book by it's cover.

2006-11-04 12:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 2 0

I have been experiencing that ever since I visited my cousin in Boston. Not exactly flattering to see middle-aged men giving you the thumbs up and looks that mean nothing but good. I just brush it off and ignore them as I walk away

2006-11-04 11:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

These men aren't dead yet and looking may be all they have left besides the memories. You will get to a point in your life when you will cherish every appreciative look you get and then they stop forever. Save your memories, you'll need them.

2006-11-04 12:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 4 0

they stare because they wish they were younger, and if he's a distinguished looking man, a gentleman, then I would feel flattered.

2006-11-04 11:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by emma 4 · 5 0

Because they're perverted assholes. If you're married and carrying a kid you shouldn't be oogling other women.

2006-11-04 11:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Annihilator 1 · 4 1

Yeah!!!!! I hate it so much! I feel like they are going to rape me or something!

2006-11-04 11:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 4 2

im sorry we can't help it.

2006-11-04 17:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey Boy 2 · 2 3

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