If you're not ok with saying the word sex, then you're definitely not old enough. Beyond that, it completely depends on the individuals. You have to be able to responsibly use birth control, and to deal with potential consequences like pregnacy and STDs. You should also keep in mind that having had sex makes it a lot harder to break up with someone.
2006-11-04 11:39:39
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answered by Anonymous
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There's no age requirement as to when to have sex. There probably should be tho. And sex isn't a bad word so there's no reason to not spell it out. My husband and I dated for 5 1/2 years before getting married, and we didn't start having sex until almost 4 years into dating. I was 24, he was 25. Nowadays, it's not too common for people to wait that long. Most people have already had sex by the time they are 15 or 16. And if you're worried about your mom getting upset, then you are definately NOT ready to have sex! You should at least be old enough to make that kind of decision on your own without having to think about what your parents would think about it.
2006-11-05 01:57:16
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answered by dodd319 4
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18+
2006-11-04 11:56:45
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answered by Anonymous
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No you should not even be thinking about it . I was young once so i know what you are going through but you are better off to wait take it from me I had my first son at the age of 16 and it has been A very hard life for us
2006-11-04 11:44:49
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answered by SAHM and proud of it 3
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I'm assuming your not very old. Question is are you ready to face the consequences. Pregnancy is one. Sexually transmitted disease is life threatening. Do you want to stop being a care-free kid & be a teenage mother. Weighed down by all the responsibility. Or would you just like to be a kid for awhile. Do you suspect that your mother is right. Is a little voice in side you tell you to wait. For your sake & the sake of the boy Listen.
2006-11-04 11:45:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends how old you are. If your 6 or 7 years old - WAY TO YOUNG. Try and wait till your married (and I know that's almost impossible) so I'd say 17 would be a good age to loose your virginity at - if you really have to. But, by the way your spelling looks - I'd say stay in school and learn how to spell before you have sex. Seriously - your spelling sucks.
2006-11-04 11:39:13
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answered by You'llneverguess 4
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I don't think you can say the right age for everyone. Only you can answer that about yourself. One thing is sure though-- do it because you want to, not just because your bf wants to. You hav just as much right in making that decision as he does, and if he doesn't want to be with you because you won't have sex with him, then he is not worth it. I don't know how old you are, but there is always plenty of time-- no need to rush.
2006-11-04 11:55:23
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answered by kiffmekl1979 1
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If you are asking you aren't ready. Your bf is a jerk if he is pressuring you - dump him because if you sleep with him you'll regret it for a long long time. Wait until you are ready-probably about 18 or so is a good age. Personally I waited until I was 20 and glad I did, if I'd slept with that first guy I'd hate myself today-he had syphilis(found out about 1 month after we broke up cause I wouldn't sleep with him). Stick to your guns, and wait until you are ready.
2006-11-04 12:07:51
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answered by Walking on Sunshine 7
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there is no specific age if you are under18 he could be charged for rape. He is just a bf so why would you give yourself away so freely to someone who may be replaced by another or he may replace you for another. You will probably have a bad reputation later. Save yourself for marriage. Sex is cheap. A true love comes with commitment
2006-11-04 11:37:45
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answered by Mary Smith 6
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Wait until your married if your Boyfriend really loved and cared about you he would await until marriage and also court you also. Courting is a must these days because you don't know how sicking a person is if you go on dates.
2006-11-04 12:37:11
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answered by Anonymous
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