what if your best friend got asked out by your , not so popular and not so handsome, ex- boyfriend, who you dont like at all anymore ( i swear i dont ).... she dosnt know if she likes him but he wasnt right for me and shes my best best friend. i dont want her to go out with him... only cuz im afraid shes gunna get hurt! is this bad? please help me! i told her to say no to him but my 2 other friends told her to say yes! how do i get her to say no... or at least what to say to her!
2006-11-04 11:17:23 · 17 answers · asked by xsolast_summerx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you think he would hurt her? You must have some evidence based on the relationship the 2 of you had. But keep in mind that, unless he was awful, their relationship could have a completely dynamic than yours did. Tell her your concerns and then let her make up her own mind.
2006-11-04 11:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her what all happened between you guys and how come you guys broke up, and if she still wants to get her heart broken she can go out with him. I would just let her know what to look out for (like if he likes to take advantage of a situation or whatever). Just be there for her if her heart gets broken, just help her pick up the peices, be her shoulder to cry on. Just be her friend.
2006-11-04 11:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Juice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have to find out things for themselves, oftentimes, the hard way....If he's really a total jerk, then her find out for herself. If it all falls apart in the end, then in the future she'll be more likely to heed your advice!!! Be ABSOLUTELY SURE that the reason you don't want them to date is because you're jealous (maybe just a teeny-tiny-little-itsy-bitsy-bit?)...If that's the case, you could end up losing your friend!! Don't let a silly thing like jealousy wreck your friendship!!
PEACE!
2006-11-04 11:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tom I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you don't want him back?? because you are sounding as if you do. but anyway. don't try to convince her not to go out with him. just because the two of you did not work out does not mean the same will happen to the two of them.so leave her alone. and why your at it you should tell her that your sorry, for telling her that. also if she does go out with him don't be bad mouthing him, like im sure you have done already, and if it don't work out between them don't say i told you so. just be there for her.
2006-11-04 12:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me before and dont make the same mistake i made....either tell ur bf why u dont want her going out with ur ex and explain how shell get hurt by him or just let it go cuz then ppl will start thinkin ur just jealous
2006-11-04 11:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it... without your other friends around. and explain that you dont want her to get hurt.. i mean its like against the code to go out with your best friends ex... so why should SHE?
2006-11-04 13:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. This is one of the lessons she needs to learn by herself. If she is going to get hurt, then just tell her to be careful, but she needs to learn on her own.
2006-11-04 11:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if you dont still like him... it still isnt right 4 your bff to go out w/ your ex...he could be using her 4 u! trust me... it happened 2 me b4 and its NOT pretty!
2006-11-04 11:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her learn on her own. Stay out of it, she will say that it is because you still like him.
2006-11-04 11:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 07:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋